Hi, I have questions about how and when you found out information about your diagnosis and treatment plan along the way. My husband was diagnosed at a routine colonoscopy with no symptoms, pathology report includes poorly differentiated adenocarcinoma signet ring type invasive. He is scheduled for surgery to remove part of the colon in a week. We do not yet know what stage and have not received any tumor rating, etc. The oncologist we were referred to does not plan to meet with us until after he has the pathology report from the surgery. The surgeon has met with us once and says that the exact amount of the colon to be removed will depend on what he finds during surgery.
This process doesn't make sense to me, I thought the medical oncologist would be reading the reports and working with us to direct the treatment from day 1. I also assumed that with the relative rarity of the cancer type there would be discussions on how that effects treatment decisions. I know surgery is the most common treatment for colon cancer but I expected a discussion about it before being scheduled and to have some expectations set about what would be removed.
Is this similar to what you all went through when starting out with your diagnosis or did things happen in a different order for you?
Thank you!