I came on the forum this morning to search for handheld bidet recommendations because my butt gets painfully sore at night and my handheld bidets weren't getting me totally clean so I started using my shower wand instead and that worked great BUT when I came on here and searched this is what I found:
Anal incontinence due to bidet use
Imagine my disappointment! However it does make sense to me as flushing my butt with water definitely stimulates further leakage.
My reason for posting then is to ask if there are folks here who DO use a bidet, but have NOT experienced anal incontinence. Don't know if it will change my mind one way or another, but I'm just curious to hear what others have to say.