Postby JP66 » Thu Jan 16, 2025 2:14 pm
Well I hate to be the Debbie Downer of the party, but as we all know posting here is somewhat of a mental therapy so here goes . . .
Had my reversal surgery last Thursday (Jan. 9, 2025). Surgery was fine and during recovery they administered fentanyl so I felt great that day and then it all went downhill. Second day was on liquid only but I could barely walk and only with the aid of a walker. Didn't pass gas that day but did the next AM so they moved me to solid food. Two slices of white bread, 1/2 cup of rice, and a tablespoon of peanut butter and that night I thought I was going to die the gas pain and naseau was so bad. Next day back on a liquid diet, but my stomach was severely distended. I had this happen after surgery once before and I suspect it was a combination of my body's shutting down my digestive system as well as the 3 bags of IV fluid they pumped into me. In any case the stomach distention and bloating only started to diminish today almost a week later. Meanwhile I am 100% incontinent with poop leaking out at will and I'm on the toilet in excess of 20 times a day even though I'm barely eating and only bread, rice, and cream of wheat. My body does seem to give itself a few hours time between needing to evacuate my bowels so I have gotten small blocks of sleep, but in general I am completely miserable and finding it hard to get myself into a positive frame of mind. I was waiting for the bloating to subside before trying Immodium, but I just broke down and took a starter dose just now in hopes of changing from pure liquid to some solid. I'm hoping that will give me some minor control so I can get to a toilet before I leak. In addition my butt is starting to burn slightly, and I can only imagine that will get worse with time. My handheld bidets just aren't powerful enough to clean my butt thoroughly. As a result I just tried using my shower wand and that works fine, but obviously not an option if I ever try to leave the house. I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow, and I'm thinking I'll just fast prior to try and keep from having an accident whilst sitting in the car.
I hope this is just first week issues that will get better because if not I will seriously consider a permanent colostomy.
Male 58 y/o
TIIIbN+M1 - Stage IV (10/23) - 2 left common iliac lymph nodes metastatic
MSI - MSS; KRAS non-mutant
Modified Neo-adjuvant Therapy (FOLFIRINOX instead of FOLFOX)
tumor 7.4 cm from AV, moderately differentiated
12/23 - 27 treatments rad+Xeloda
03/24 6 FOLFIRINOX infusions
4/24 PET Scan and MRI - tumor gone, lymph nodes normal
5/30/24 TME/LAR + lymphadenectomy of 2 left common iliac LN
7/15/24 6 rounds FOLFOX
CEA (10/23-10/24) 1.8,1.3,1.6, 1.8, 1.6,2.1,2.7
11/19/24 PET Scan - NED