My only experience is as a caregiver for my husband. I know our anxiety levels which is different between the two of us. My only offer is that I’d rather know earlier than later. My mental state is currently in fight mode for my husband so I feel like I’m learning as much as I can about the enemy.
But I can understand that you’d feel very differently. If you do go in, I wish you great news!! And considering you’re not experiencing any symptoms or have any concerns, I feel good that you’ll be able to get rid of that dreadful feeling for awhile.
Wife of DH (52); DX 9/27/18; CEA 22.9
10/31/18 LAR; Rectosig;6.2x4.5x1.1cm; Inv adenocarc; LowGr; pT4bN2b;tumor inv through muscularis propria into pericolorectal soft tissue;tumor inv peritoneal memb, ext to the serosal surf,inv the pelv sidewall;LN - 8/27;neg margins;WT-KRAS,NRAS,BRAF; MSS