Kick'nAssCancer'sAss wrote:Just be honest with yourself
If the shoe was on he other foot when would you want the woman to let you know.
You will have your answer.
One of my most oft used expressions when I managed 9 juniors was “Don’t make your problem, my problem.”
In that vein, I personally do not in anyway think it’s fair or right to let anyone in unless I somehow get to stable/remission.
I can’t ask anyone to share this burden or make them feel any negative emotions for not wanting to do so.
Feels like I’m half alive.
But I’m better than I was one and two years ago.