Postby Rock_Robster » Sun Oct 03, 2021 8:53 pm
Cancer tests relationships hard, and unfortunately many don’t make it through. Not everyone has what it takes to be a caregiver, whereas patients don’t get a choice in the matter.
Your feelings are totally understandable and natural. My only suggestion would be to consider talking this through a bit more with someone before you do anything too irreversible - if you don’t feel like you can discuss this with your husband now, then perhaps a counsellor/therapist first?
Best of luck,
Rob
41M Australia
2018 Dx RC
G2 EMVI LVI, 4 liver mets
pT3N1aM1a Stage IVa MSS NRAS G13R
CEA 14>2>32>16>19>30>140>70
11/18 FOLFOX
3/19 Liver resection
5/19 Pelvic IMRT
7/19 ULAR
8/19 Liver met
8/19 FOLFOX, FOLFOXIRI, FOLFIRI
12/19 Liver resection
NED 2 years
11/21 Liver met, PALN, lung nodules
3/22 PVE, lymphadenectomy, liver SBRT
10/22 PALN SBRT
11/22 Liver mets, peri nodule. Xeloda+Bev
4/23 XELIRI+Bev
9/23 ATRIUM trial
12/23 Modified FOLFIRI+Bev
3/24 VAXINIA (CF33 + hNIS) trial