What symptoms did your husband present with for the brain tumor.
First of all, I have to say how very sorry I am to hear about your stepson. He is so very young to have to be dealing with all of this. My husband was 24 when he had Hodgkin's disease, a form of lymphoma, but that is old compared to your stepson!
It is somewhat difficult to explain my husband's symptoms of his brain tumor. His back was bothering him so he took a couple of Hydrocodone for the pain. Immediately after, he began showing signs similar to a stroke. His arm was pulled to his chest and his leg on the same side was not working properly. He quit taking the hydrocodone and the symptoms began to subside but when we told his onc, he wanted a brain MRI just to be sure it was the medication and not anything else. Well, it turned out that he did have a tumor in his brain.
He had been mentioning for months also, that he thought something was not right with his vision but his onc dismissed it and told him to go to the eye doctor. Turns out that his tumor was probably causing him vision issues for months before he was diagnosed. We just didn't even think about that as a possibility.
He, however, never had headaches from his tumor so I can't help you with that at all. We were told that MRIs were the most accurate way to scan the brain for tumors so that is what we had done. I certainly hope that your stepson does not have to deal with that also. He has so much already. My heart hurts for your stepson and all your family. I hope that you are able to find peace on this most difficult journey.