Postby Terry » Fri Sep 11, 2009 9:18 pm
What do you mean they couldn't find any lymph nodes to biopsy? There are so many lymph nodes in your body. If he obliterated them, how? Do you mean the radiation? He should have taken whatever lymph nodes weren't obliterated closest to the site and biopsied them. I think you need to have a second opinion. Even if you go through with the reversal next week I would take your chart and see another doctor, this one seems for unsympathetic.
Believe me, we all hate oxi, it sucks. I'm off of it for four months and the thought of going back on it makes me sick. You have to think of your son. I'm being tested for lynch right now mainly because I have three children. If you test positive then it's a lot less expensive to have your son tested (if your positive, he has a 50% chance of being positive). Also, if your son is positive then he can have early testing to try and prevent him from having to go through this. You also can take more preventitive measures in checking for other cancers.
It sounds like you had a bad week, I've had some of those too. The ups and downs with cancer stinks but it's something I guess we have to go through. Hopefully it will get better for you with the reversal. I didn't want a colostomy either. Could I live with one? Yes, if I had to but I really don't want to. You may feel better after and if it does come back (and hopefully it doesn't), they can put it back.
Good luck and God Bless!
Terry
DX 7/3/07
Chemo, radiation, 20 mo. chemo, IMRT, cyberknife, 6/11 lobectomy.
1/16 resection perm. colostomy intraop. rad.
PET 2/12 nose, thyroid, liver, lngs
Folfox 3/12
Lord I know You'll keep me here until
you know I cannot suffer any longer!