I've been blogging my August 20 reversal here:viewtopic.php?f=1&t=9501
Ten days out, I wouldn't hesitate to go to Disneyland. I would definitely expect to tire more easily than normal, but anyplace with decent bathrooms (DL qualifies there) would be a place I'd be comfortable visiting at this point. You will need to watch what you eat. I'd figure out what works best for you and pack a lunch rather than risk eating something that might unexpectedly turn on you.
As to the bathroom thing, I went from about 8:00 this morning until 2:00 p.m. without needing to visit same, so it's really not a huge deal. For me, at any rate, continence is not an issue.
I know others have fared far worse. All I can do is explain what it's been like for me.
Dx RC 3/09
LAR, temp ileo 6/09, rev. 8/09
4 Rnd Xelox
Mis-dx 2a, 6/09. Dx Stg 4a, 8/10.
T3, N 0/18, M1
Thoracotomy (r) 10/10
2 lung mets dx 6/11
Thoracotomy/lobectomy (l), VATS (r) 3/14/12
Bicycle miles post-dx 10,105