Postby Mali » Wed Nov 29, 2006 6:06 pm
Kimie
I have to make this brief, so please forgive me, but I am stressed to the hilt with all the studying I have to do.
Mum was diagnosed with cancer of the breast 11 years ago, then colon cancer about 4 years ago now, then liver metastases about 18 months ago. She now has cancerous nodules all over.
I think you must do whatever you feel necessary. Call your Mum's doc, even though they may say it's confidential information. Can you not talk to your Mum about her disease in any detail? Do you have a Dad or sibling that you can discuss this with? Could you not go and have a confidential meeting yourself with her consultant. Since Mum has been so ill, I have researched all over the world, and at times, she has been inspired by the material, and at others, she does not care anymore, she shows no interest. I'm sorry to hear that you are concerned that contacting your Mum's doctor may distress her, but you need to feel, as her daughter perhaps, that you are doing everything you can, even if this just means feeling better informed.
God bless your Mum and you.
With love, Mali.