Postby Lifes2short » Fri Dec 01, 2006 11:52 am
Cheryl,
As the others have pointed out, you do have some time before the chemo should start, but you certainly should be involved with an Oncologist by now. Sometimes it can take a couple weeks to get the first appointment. Also, remember that the Oncologist is the person who is going to be working with you for the duration of treatment and follow-up. You have to like and trust this person. If you have any reservations or questions, then you should get a second opinion.
I got inolved with my oncologist before surgery (but I did chemo and radiation prior to surgery). I knew early on that she wasn't the right person for me, but I was hesitant to make a change. By late October I just couldn't stand it any longer. Her treatment of me borders negligence. I found a new oncologist and couldn't be happier. This guy is on top of all the latest stats and treatment plans.
I have learned this month just how important it is to trust and feel good about your doctor. I'm even finding that my chemo goes better with the new doc - I think it's because I know that I can pick up the phone and call if I have any problems. With the last doc, it wasn't that way at all. "oh, sorry you don't feel well. Get some rest, we'll see you in two weeks. No, the doctor can't speak with you".
Good luck. And if your surgeon doesn't refer you to someone, take matters into your own hands and start making calls. Sometimes you can tell how an office runs just by the way you are treated when you call. If they are warm, helpful and friendly then it's likely that the docs are that way as well.