Hi everyone
I haven't visited for a while. I'm not making time for anything over and above immediate and urgent demands on my time these days.
Mum is battling on. She stopped all chemo (5FU) about 6 weeks ago. Has stopped anti-sickness medication, vitamins, morphine. Everything. For the first 4 weeks she was stronger than she'd been for ages. She thinks her system was being poisoned with all the medications. But now, 6 weeks into her break she is beginning to be really ill. The cancer is so cruel to her, her abdomen is swelling, the young and vibrant woman she was is being beaten down by her disease. I hate it, hate it with all my heart.
I want her to have one day, just one day, release from the pain. I want her to be able to get up, have a shower, dress, put make up on, feel vibrant and attractive and energetic...just for one day. But she will never have a day like that again in her life.
Next Monday she will go visit the oncologist again. They may suggest there is nothing more to be done. Or they may try her with oxaliplatin, let her body take a beating from it, but it might kill some of the cruel cancer cells in her body.
Nobody knows what to expect, but I believe now, that the strong spirit my Mum is, is beginning to lose to this disease.
What a cruel cruel thing.
But, I have her here now and I thank God for that at least.
Love to all of you and sending you my warmest deepest wishes for your battles with the disease.
Mali.