For those that don't know my story I am a 56 yr old survivor of st3 colon cancer 6/13 lymph nodes involved. I was dx in Jan 98 so this nextJan will be the end of year nine.
I had a very old regime of chemo. 5FU and a anti parasitic drug called levamisole. I know of three other survivors who had this regime.
We have a combined total of 42 years of survival. One has just under gone a liver transplant because of long term toxcicity from chem. Another who posted here recently is facing a double hip transplant as a result of l/t side effects of chem. My friend Virginia has had several benign tumours removed and is currently showing symptoms of MS. I have had non-stop gastro-intestinal problems ranging from ulcers to pancreatitis and gallbladder removal as well as liver and kidney problems.
When I asked my surgeon about l/t side effects of chemo he replied "who knows who cares ,if we find a drug that kills cancer without killing the patient ,we are obliged to use it".
I see a lot of posts from survivors . Most seem to think that end of chemo = end of problems. This post is not about being negative. It is about trying to make you aware that survival is tough and you HAVE to be prepared for long term effects both physical and mental.
I don't think that any survivors can fully understand the impact that cancer has on their loved ones. I didn't until last weekend when my wife told me she was leaving me. She said that there were no ggod times in our marriage any more . My chemo also resulted in total sexual dysfunction so there has been little intimacy in the last ten years. So I can't really blame her . If I could go back ten years and do it differently I might make a difference. It really is something that survivors need to think about. Our loved ones catch our impression that once chemo ends life returns to normal. Perhaps for a very lucky few it may and I make that wish for all of you. It hasn't for me ,I no longer think of life after cancer as anything but survival.
Ron.