A couple of months ago, I posted a note with regards to uncontrollable fits of crying at my workplace. I thought it might have something to do with the promotion at my company to a sales position a week before being diagnosed and undergoing surgery. A month ago, I decided to take disability for the remainder portion of my treatment. Only three left! Since taking time off, I have not had not cried like I did at work. I have been enjoying the time to myself and the time to heal. Still, I now know I do not want to go back to my old job. I made most of my commissions advertising menthol cigarettes. That’s just not right!!!
After a month of soul searching and trying to figure out what I want to do with my life, I decided to make a career change. I’m interested in finding a job where I can help people. In particular, I’ve been looking into foundations that raise money to help other people with cancer, diabetes, HIV, children…etc…. Basically, a job where I can give back to society and wake up motivated. Furthermore, I decided to move to Los Angeles. I have lived in NYC for 8 years and it’s time for a change (I grew up in TX). I chose LA because I have a ton of friends out there and my parent’s are close by. (I am only 30). I know it’s the city with my second biggest support group.
Still, my oncologist at Sloan-Kettering does not recommend I move so quickly after finishing treatment and my first PET and CAT scans. She has warned me twice about my advanced Stage 3CN2 and the high possibilities of recurrence. She also has reminded me about the incredible group of friends and family (sister, husband, nieces) who live in New York and have stood by me through this experience. I’m an extremely optimistic person and always look for the best in any situation. In my mind, I’m done with cancer …although I know that might not be the truth. Still, I can’t see myself staying in NYC and waiting to get sick again. I want to live my life and do all the things I have wanted to do but not had enough courage to do on my own…like moving and making a career change.
Anyway, I think I have written a novel here. Please let me know what you think I should do.
Thanks!!!