Postby NWgirl » Wed Feb 25, 2009 11:11 pm
First of all let me say how sorry I am that you have had to find this group. That said - welcome. It's great you found us early on - there are lots and lots of knowledgable and caring people here who can help you as you and your family go through this journey.
We have a lot of members on this group so I'm sure you will get some info on good surgeons in the Boston area. Since you're asking, be sure to find a good colo-rectal surgeon vs. a general surgeon. Colo-rectal surgeons specialize in colon related surgeries - it's all they do, so they have much more experience in the type of surgery your husband will be having. That's really important.
The surgeon will just do the surgery. The oncologist is the cancer doctor and will handle any chemo that your husband receives. Generally these doctors work very closely together to coordinate your care (or at least mine do). Depending on how they stage your husbands cancer will determine what type of chemo (if any) is required and when. Before they come up with a plan the surgeon will usually coordinate lots of tests - CT's PET scans, blood tests - not sure what else. I can't remember the technical terms here - but they will come up with basically their "best guess" on the staging of the cancer before surgery. But it's the actual pathology from the surgery that determines his true cancer stage - where they remove the tumor and look at the tumor and surrounding tissues, lymph nodes, etc. under the microscope.
From what I've read on this site, the hospital stay for this surgery is minimum 7 days. Mine was 9 days initially, released for 24 hours, then back for another 7 day stay because I couldn't stop vomiting. But that doesn't seem to be the norm and even my doctor said this was really an exception. My body just didn't want to get the plumbing going again so we had to start from scratch so to speak when I was readmitted and just take it really slowly.
37 is very young to get cancer but you will find many of us on this board who were diagnosed in our 30's, 40's and some even in their 20's. If your husband has any siblings, please have him contact them and tell them they need to get colonoscopy's too. Some cancers are genetic/hereditary and other times it's just bad luck. Best for any brothers/sisters to get checked now just to be safe.
I know how overwhelming this all is. Please know that we are here to ask questions of, vent to, cry and laugh with.
Belle - "Don't Retreat - Reload"DX 10/07 Stage III Rectal
Surgery 11/07; 27 of 38 nodes
Perm Colostomy 8/11
12/10 recurrence lungs & LN's
VATS Jan 2011
Radiation Oct 2013
Chemo for Life
2012 Colondar Model