My brother is in a similar situation to yours. He is 31, just diagnosed September 28, 2005 with stage IV, metastasis to the liver. He just started chemo on Monday. He is doing a clinical trial...combination of Erbitux, Avastin, and Folfox. He is married with a 14 month old daughter.
Definately a tough time in his life to battle something like this!!! I give you so much credit. I myself am a mom...I have a two year old, and a three month old and I can't imagine how difficult it must be to fight the cancer and raise your young child at the same time. I know you are in a position where you just have to do what you have to do, but it doesn't make it any easier.
I am here, along with everyone else in the colon club to help, or just offer support. Good luck and I will send positive thoughts your way!