So sorry to hear this Nicole.
My father was a young doctor, still completing his training as traumatologist, he was 26. He had two little kids ages 1.5 (my sister) and 2.5 (myself)
One day he felt some pressure in his chest, he had some checks done, nothing showed up. The next day he suffered a heart attack and passed on, nothing could be done to help him.
I guess I am trying to say we are all on borrowed time. All we have is a lifetime, it may be shorter or longer, nobody really knows.
I hope you far outlive those three months, and I hope you enjoy good times with your son.
Best wishes and hugs.
46 yo male Spain
06/20 - 6cm T3N0M0 CC splenic flex
No liver mets, 3 and 4 mm lung dots (unlikely to be mets)
MSH6- other MMR+
KRAS mt G13D
07/20 - hemicol surg, 13cm clear margins, optimistic surgn.
08/20 - CAPOX regime, 4 cycles.
11/20 - CAPOX completed. CAT scan: lesion in liver, suspect hemoangioma, no changes lung dots.
12/20 - Clean colonoscopy
02/21 - MRI liver lesion is nonspecific, stable.