So sorry to hear this Nicole.
My father was a young doctor, still completing his training as traumatologist, he was 26. He had two little kids ages 1.5 (my sister) and 2.5 (myself)
One day he felt some pressure in his chest, he had some checks done, nothing showed up. The next day he suffered a heart attack and passed on, nothing could be done to help him.
I guess I am trying to say we are all on borrowed time. All we have is a lifetime, it may be shorter or longer, nobody really knows.
I hope you far outlive those three months, and I hope you enjoy good times with your son.
Best wishes and hugs.
46 yo male at DX from Spain
June 2020 - 6 cm T3N0M0 cancer on left colon
No evidence of liver mets, two milimetric dots in lung, 3 and 4 mm (currently not considered mets)
lymph nodes 0/37
MSH6 non expressed, other MMR proteins present
KRAS mt G13D
Vascular invasion: absent
July 8th 2020 - 50 cm colon and spleen removed, clean margins, optimistic surgeon.
Aug 2020 - start of XELOX regime, four cycles.