Carboxo wrote:I know I don’t have the right to be mad. I’m not the one going through chemo but I be been there whenever called. I get the phone calls the messages that just tear me apart because I can’t help, but I’m angry. My sister finished her first round of chemo and then decided she doesn’t want to do any more because she doesn’t want to be sick. She doesn’t want to be nauseous for 3 more months. She just wants to do chemoradiation now only. She’s stage 3A. She’s only 48 years old. She’s only a year younger than me and what the hell. I’m mad at her for not wanting to fight. I’m mad that when I told her I love her and want her to be here that she ignored me. I’m just mad. I know it’s her choice but it’s not fair.
Instead or replying into the feedback you have already received .... (( NOT my usual response here
I want to support and validate what YOU need right now.
You told us ... you need to rant/vent.
we gotchur back homie
as a caregiver and Stage IVa survivor, Yes I have a few insights and comments, if that is what you NEED ?
I learned a LONG time ago that :
" You have ONLY 1 nervous system to protect...
AND that is YOUR OWN.
It doesn't matter what others "want" from you or life,
... WHAT DO YOU NEED ? "
Everyone who has replied IS a CClubber doing what WE DO ....
...BUTT ... ( yeah there always has to be at least ONE
WHAT DO YOU NEED ?
we don't know your sister
we know YOU
What do you need from US
your CTalk family ?
"Solve your problem" ?
just listen while you vent ???
WE CAN DO IT WITH YOU AND FOR YOU !
WE are here for YOU
are part of US !!!!
PM me anytime for any reason
In Harmony sista'
FOR YOUR SISTER
Always on the Journey