This makes me cry for you and your wife, but yet I love part of the title and your drive to make moments count versus the being a victim to the other course. I prayed just now that you two are surrounded by powerful bravery to thoroughly live it up. I hate all this. Live it up.
5/19 - DH - 50s, RC 5+cm at dentate line extending to rectal vau
6/19 - Neoadjuvant Xeloda with radiation 6 weeks
9/19 - Restorative Proctectomy, J-Pouch Coloanal Anastomosis, Loop Ileostomy with Appendectomy
10/19 - ypT3N2aM0
10/19 - Adenocarcinoma, moderately differentiated. Deep ulcerated 2.0 cm. Stage 3B with 6/22 lymph nodes positive
Next up: 4 months chemo suggested