Hello and welcome to our board.
First of all....take a breath and try to relax. I understand that you want to be involved, however, unless your father is incapable of making his own decisions, the doctors may very well not speak to you without his permission. I could be over analyzing your response...but my first piece of advice to you is to allow your mom/dad to be the decision makers (after all, 63 is not old) and you be the support person.
Rectal cancer is treated very differently from most other cancers, and from what you have said, the doctors are proceeding correctly. USUALLY, with rectal cancer, unless there is an emergent reason not to.....chemo and radiation IS done first in order to (a) shrink the tumor which tends to allow for a better surgery and (b) to 'sterilize' the local nodal field. Chemoradiation is generally NOT done with colon cancer as the colon is not fixed and it would be difficult, if not impossible, to radiate the correct area. The rectum, however, IS fixed and therefore, is much easier to radiate. So, from that perspective, yes, the plan to first do chemoradiation is on track.
Rectal cancer cannot definitively be staged without some more tests. While an MRI/CT can show some nodal fields, doctors like to either do a special MRI (rectal MRI ) or a rectal ultrasound (rectal EUS) to be able to better see the nodes around the rectum. Staging for cancers is done utilizing the TNM method.
In rectal cancer....the
"T" stands for the tumor
DEPTH....not the size....of the tumor. The doctors need to know how far down the tumor has extended into the rectal wall and/or possibly into the rectal fat surrounding the wall. That cannot be seen with an MRI/CT scan. The EUS will help them determine that information. Remember that the colonoscopy only shows the surface of the tumor.....not how far down it has extended into the rectal wall. What might appear to be a small tumor (via colonoscopy) could in fact be small on the surface that is readily seen by the scope but it could have extended quite far into the rectal wall AND the opposite is true as well. The
"N" stands for number of
LOCAL nodes involved. Until a patient has surgery, there is no 100% way of knowing how many nodes are/aren't affected. Let me clarify somewhat. Yes, it is possible to see what appear to be suspicious nodes via a CT/MRI in most regions of the body and with some clarity in the pelvic area surrounding the rectum. IF the doctor had seen DISTANT lymph nodes......he/she would likely have told him that. It is the doctor's preference as to what test....either the CT or the MRI to have done. Honestly, it sounds as though all the right testing has been done so far. The
'M" indicates mets and or DISTANT nodes. Without ALL of these pieces, your father can't be staged and the EUS or rectal MRI has to be done first.
So, first thing...just because surgery was called off....don't assume it is a bad thing. Honestly, with rectal cancer it is a GOOD thing because it means that by treating it with the proper treatments FIRST (in this case, neoadjuvant chemoradiation) the doctors are following a proven protocol. I personally believe that you are jumping the gun worrying about radiation and other clinical trials. Rectal radiation wouldn't likely negate someone from the HAI pump....they are in two different areas of the body ....and I'm sure you would be able to find people on this board who have done both.
Honestly, it sounds like the doctor is being VERY cautious and following all the steps to ensure that your father is getting the best care. I WOULD suggest, however, that your father seek the care of a board certified colorectal surgeon. Many doctors can and do perform surgery for rectal cancer, however, because the pelvic area is small and not as easily accessible as say the abdominal area, IMO, it is better to seek the care of a board certified colorectal surgeon. Remember that all surgeons are board certified in GENERAL surgery....but that doesn't necessarily mean that he/she has taken all the necessary steps to be certified in colon and rectal surgery. Here is a link to verify the surgeon.
http://www.abcrs.org/verify-a-physician-2/. Now, there may very well NOT be a specialist surgeon in the Rome area (I have no idea), HOWEVER, that doesn't mean that your father can't or shouldn't have his chemoradiation and see an oncologist from that area. Many people, myself included, have those parts of their treatment done locally and go elsewhere for their surgery. In my case, for example, I stayed with a local oncologist and had my chemoradiation done locally as well, but traveled up to Seattle (a little over an hour away) for my surgeon. I still see her (surgeon) for my 5 year scopes (I'm 13 years out) and initially for all of my followups. Remember that generally, after surgery, the patient does his/her long term follow up with the oncologist and not the surgeon. IMO, if your father likes and trusts the local oncologist (not sure who he has seen at this point), then he should stay locally for that and IF he wants to go somewhere else for surgery....do that. It's not at all uncommon.
Right now, your father and the doctors really don't know a lot and won't know until the next test is done that will give them all more clarification. Rectal cancer is staged differently than many cancers. After all the tests are done, the patient will get a CLINICAL staging and not a pathological staging (cTNM vs pTNM). The reason for this is simple. IF the patient has a neoadjuvant treatment (chemo, chemoradiation, radiation) done prior to the surgery, it is very possible that the tumor could have shrunk (both in depth and size) and/or nodes could be eliminated from the treatments, etc. so a TRUE pathological staging can't be determined with accuracy. That actually is a good thing. Think about it....if, for example, chemoradiation takes a (example) 6 cm tumor that has been ascertained to be a T3 (how deep the tumor has invaded the rectal wall) and shrinks it down to a (example again) 1 cm tumor that is now T1 (not nearly as deept) that is FANTASTIC. However, if a doctor ONLY looked at the results of tests AFTER the treatment, it wouldn't give the doctor a clear and accurate picture of the true staging of the patient. It gets confusing, I know.
What I am trying to say is this. So far, your dad's doctor has followed all the correct steps and while it is frustrating that with rectal cancer, things don't necessarily move quickly, you want the doctors to get all the facts before deciding what to do next. I might suggest that you ask the doctor if he/she is planning on running blood tests before your dad starts treatment and, in particular, having his CEA checked. That is a test which MAY give some insight into his tumor markers. Approximately half of all patients, however, have NORMAL CEA tests and definitively have cancer. Doing it as a baseline prior to any type of neoadjuvant treatment is appropriate. Don't be surprised, however, if his CEA comes back within normal limits. I had a large 4 X 6 cm tumor and my CEA was 0.5 ......depending on the specific test (there are two different ones), the normal range is 0 - 2.5 or 4 for a non smoker and higher for a smoker.
I would suggest that you have someone get a 3 ringed binder, complete with dividers. Start a section for: pathology reports, other reports (CT, MRI, ultrasound, Colonoscopy), blood work, etc. After each test, have your father request a copy of those reports. If your dad is ok with it, allow him to have your name with the doctors office so that you can also request a copy of those same reports. I would also suggest that if your dad has a good relationship with his GP that he has that doctor cc'd for all test results as well. That way, you can go to the GP and get a report that you may have missed. From my experience, having one doctor (GP) have everything in his/her file is ideal....less time to go around and seek information from hospitals, clinics, other docs, etc.
Right now, your dad sounds like he is getting good care. The next step, IMO, is to find him an oncologist that he likes/trusts. This doctor will be of utmost importance in the next years and will be the main doctor that your dad works with. Honestly, it isn't necessary to travel for chemo (oncologist) and/or radiation (radiation oncologist....not the same as a radiologist) and oftentimes it is just easier to have that treatment done locally. I got an opinion from Seattle Cancer Care Alliance (rated around 5th in the country) but the idea of traveling everyday over 1.5 hours in rush hour traffic to have my radiation wasn't attractive at all to me. Why would I? Unless your dad's case is something super unique....he can have his radiation done locally. It's easier all around (IMO). The same thing is true for his chemo. Oncologists follow the standard protocol and your father most likely will get the same treatment locally as he would if he traveled to a large medical center. Until you know his clinical staging and the specifics of his pathology report (what type, if any, negative factors he may have.....what's his tumor grade....well/moderately/poorly differentiated, signet or mucinous cell, etc.) you shouldn't assume that he MUST go to a major cancer center. I have personally know of people who are stage 1 or II that have gone to a major cancer center and have felt that the doctors there wants to OVER TREAT them.
Right now, let the doctors run all the tests....EUS/Rectal MRI, blood work and get a clinical staging done. Generally, radiation will be advised and that should be done next. Your dad should find an oncologist he likes/trusts, get recommendations for a surgeon and possibly even visit those surgeons (remember, second opinions are just fine) and then likely see the rad onc to get marked for radiation. The oncologist MAY recommend that your dad get a port placed right away or may not. Some oncologists prefer that a patient has a 24/7 pump during the 6 weeks of radiation.....others are fine with the oral form during radiation. I tried the pump but hated the 24/7 part and switched to the oral form. Others have done fine with the 24/7 pump. That, IMO, should be a choice that your dad, in conjunction with the onc, makes. It's hard enough (again, IMO) to be getting zapped everyday and for me, the constant reminder of the pump was just too much. The whole cancer journey takes so much control away from the patient that sometimes its just nice to avoid the constant reminders that you are sick....which in my case was that 24/7 pump.
Back to my beginning advice....relax, take a breath. Honestly, from what you have stated, your father is getting exactly the treatment and following all the protocol that he should be getting. Let the doctors get all the tests done and then see what everything shows.
Best of luck.