Mohrfamily wrote:Ok so maybe I quoted Jim Carey aka The Riddler from a cheesier version of Batman.
Fact remains: how long have some of you waited for surgery? DH hates talking to the oncologist because she continues to say we are just "keeping cancer at bay" "keeping things stable" her outlook us positive but that's it. I try and remind my husband he's gotten better with his numbers and every scan thus far has shown improvement and maybe her meeting this time is less spectacular considering we don't usually see her till after a scan is done and he's calling today to schedule a new PET at the request of the radiologist.
I remain positive and I don't dwell on negative thoughts but it's harder for him to block things out I understand. But it drives him to fight that much harder. He worries he's going to be in a constant " holding" pattern. After all he's had zero surgical procedures done not counting his port placement.
I know I had more things to ask than that but its early and tone to start the daily grind at least its Friday!
I really hate to say this but, maybe they are trying to tell you something without saying it.