brokenwings wrote:
Tonight the pressure was so heavy that he even told me that it was ok if I lost a kidney during surgery, that's not a big deal (wtf?).
When I hang up, I broke down and spoke to my husband and he confessed the most horrible thing... My dad once
told him that I had to be operated on, even if I died on the operating table.
I think my father's ashamed of me because I have cancer. He usually hates surgery but now he keeps pushing for it. I think he wants me to be operated on as soon as possible so he doesn't have to tell people that his daughter has cancer and she's doing chemo and she's bald and weak and has a colostomy...
I'm sorry, I had to get that out of my chest...
bwings wrote:
My father was extremely disappointed when he learnt that my surgeon chose not to operate on me. He even asked a second opinion to a friend of his who's an oncologist and -guess what?- he agreed with my surgeon!
Since then, he keeps repeating that I have to be operated on and that I have to look for another surgeon just in case my current surgeon doesn't want to do it after 4 (or 6) cycles of chemo.
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