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Please Send Good Vibes for Friday

Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2018 10:35 am
by crikklekay
I've seen others post similar threads when they need a little support for testing anxiety, so here we go! My husband is finally getting a complete colonoscopy this Friday. When he was in the hospital they were only able to do a lower colonoscopy because the tumor was blocking the sigmoid section of his colon and there was no room for them to continue. Our Oncologist wanted him to get a complete colonoscopy from the start, but since it would have to go through the stoma first we had to wait for the surgeon to be OK with it then we had so many complications... So even though this all started late December/early January we're just getting to it now. Our Oncologist hasn't been super concerned because if anything is in there we wouldn't really change the current treatment, as long as he has no blood in his stool she didn't feel the need to rush it. But now that it's right around the corner my anxiety is getting the better of me. If I sit and think about it too long my stomach starts to clench, and I'm not sure how I'm going to keep my mind off of it while it's being done. Rationally I know if they do find anything that's a good thing so we can address it, and freaking out over the possible outcome of the procedure isn't helpful, but the thought of more cancer hiding in there makes me sick to my stomach and I can't stop worrying they'll find something horrible. I can't forget the last time, when I saw the doctor with a worried look on his face talking to a nurse, then turning to me to try and gently tell me they found a mass and he's certain it's cancer.

So please, any good vides/good luck/prayers/etc you can send John's way for his colonoscopy on Friday would be greatly appreciated. The more positive energy thrown his way the better!

Re: Please Send Good Vibes for Friday

Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2018 3:18 pm
by stu
Well do . I hope everything goes smoothly for him and you get great reassuring news.
You are only human and sometimes it’s just plain hard. But it’s amazing how you pop out on the other side .
Take special care,
Stu

Re: Please Send Good Vibes for Friday

Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2018 5:01 pm
by SteveNZ
As you know we all care here.
I am praying for you both. Bless you heaps.... :D :D

Re: Please Send Good Vibes for Friday

Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2018 5:51 pm
by juliej
I will be sending him (and you!) positive thoughts, energy, and strength all throughout the day on Friday!

I know this is a rough and uncertain time for you both. Lean on us - we're here for you!

Hugs to you,
Juliej

Re: Please Send Good Vibes for Friday

Posted: Sat Jun 23, 2018 10:38 am
by crikklekay
I’m happy to say we have a clear, normal colon! When I heard the news I wasn’t sure if I wanted to jump for joy or melt in relief. Thank you everyone for your encouragement! <3

Re: Please Send Good Vibes for Friday

Posted: Sat Jun 23, 2018 4:34 pm
by SteveNZ
crikklekay wrote:I’m happy to say we have a clear, normal colon! When I heard the news I wasn’t sure if I wanted to jump for joy or melt in relief. Thank you everyone for your encouragement! <3

Hurray!?!?! :D
So where is the party to celebrate....??? Only kidding but do feel free to rejoice. It is good news.

Re: Please Send Good Vibes for Friday

Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2018 10:32 am
by DarknessEmbraced
That's wonderful news! :D

Re: Please Send Good Vibes for Friday

Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2018 4:31 pm
by mypinkheaven
It's so nice to hear some good news. I'm happy for you and your hubby!
Sally

Re: Please Send Good Vibes for Friday

Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2018 4:35 pm
by juliej
crikklekay wrote:I’m happy to say we have a clear, normal colon! When I heard the news I wasn’t sure if I wanted to jump for joy or melt in relief. Thank you everyone for your encouragement! <3

"Clear" and "normal" is excellent! Very happy for you both. Now go celebrate!!! :D

Juliej

Re: Please Send Good Vibes for Friday

Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2018 6:42 pm
by SpringerSpanielMommy
Yay!!!! I am so happy for your family, nothing better than hearing that great news.