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Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Mon May 28, 2018 3:34 am
by SteveNZ
Thinking of you both and all you have to walk through. I have something similar and have a great medical team.
You are in our prayers.

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Tue May 29, 2018 2:25 pm
by child#6
Well today we got encouraging news... Surgeon said CEA was normal and CT scan showed no metastasis. This was the best we could hope for going into surgery. Of course biopsy taken at surgery will tell us more definitively. One week more to wait for surgery.

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Tue May 29, 2018 3:00 pm
by LPL
child#6 wrote:Well today we got encouraging news... Surgeon said CEA was normal and CT scan showed no metastasis. This was the best we could hope for going into surgery. Of course biopsy taken at surgery will tell us more definitively. One week more to wait for surgery.

”CT scan showed no metastasis”
That is good news! :)
Try to live normal and prepare for surgey.
Best of Luck going forward /LPL

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Tue May 29, 2018 8:54 pm
by chrissyrice
My cea was normal before surgery ... came out of surgery as a stage 3b

CEA is not always a good marker for cancer for many people with colon cancer.

I hope you get to see the oncologist BEFORE surgery. There have been changes that the surgeon may not be aware of for colon cancer .... ASCO is now recommending chemo or radiation before surgery as there is a better prognosis for some tumors.

If the surgeon is that great your oncologist would know him and his skill level.

Good Luck.

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Wed May 30, 2018 5:21 pm
by child#6
It may very well be the case that the situation with staging will change and I am prepared for that possibility, but for today I can only think about what I know is directly in front of us. Really trying it to worry because this also may be a one as done situation and I will have worried myself sick for nothing. Worrying wi!l sap my energy that may be needed after pathology study.

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Wed May 30, 2018 9:42 pm
by SteveNZ
child#6 wrote:.......... Really trying it to worry because this also may be a one as done situation and I will have worried myself sick for nothing. Worrying wi!l sap my energy that may be needed after pathology study.

We are here for you. Worrying can be such a difficult 'mindset' to get in order. For myself trying to get healthy logic to guide my worrying is just not that easy. All the best.
You are both in my prayers.

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Thu May 31, 2018 12:16 pm
by chrissyrice
child6,
I am only speaking from experience. The first time is always the worst when it comes to worry. I have learned so much for everyone here and the worry for me is always waiting to get the scan reports. But, I have learned to stay really busy and it helps.

I am sure you will be fine... there is no one way to do cancer :wink:

Chrissy

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Thu May 31, 2018 12:47 pm
by child#6
Thank you chrissy,
I got that it was your experience. To be honest I wish there was one cookie cutter way to do this. It would make it easier if there was a script to follow.

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Thu May 31, 2018 3:20 pm
by Lee
chrissyrice wrote:I hope you get to see the oncologist BEFORE surgery. There have been changes that the surgeon may not be aware of for colon cancer .... ASCO is now recommending chemo or radiation before surgery as there is a better prognosis for some tumors.

If the surgeon is that great your oncologist would know him and his skill level.

Good Luck.


Good advice. Do you know if it's colon or rectal cancer? I met my Onc the day after meeting the surgeon.

Make sure DH had good comfortable walking slippers for walking the hospital hall. And a wrap around bathrobe. It is easier to get in and out of while hooked up to IVs.

Good luck,

Lee

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Thu May 31, 2018 3:42 pm
by child#6
It's colon cancer at the upper end of the large intestine (cecum).Hoping it stays a stage 1, but I am prepared for something different. Waiting sucks and I'm not even the patient!!!

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Thu May 31, 2018 4:29 pm
by LPL
child#6 wrote:It's colon cancer at the upper end of the large intestine (cecum).Hoping it stays a stage 1, but I am prepared for something different. Waiting sucks and I'm not even the patient!!!

Totally understand the ”Waiting sucks”, your mind goes everywhere and it is not until you have a treatment-plan going forward that you can ’change gear’...
I know where you are... Hoping for the best for you!
Kind regards
LPL/=another wife

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2018 7:57 pm
by child#6
Another day down. Counting down til Tuesday. I got overtaken by fear last night. Fear we won't get a good result, fear of just being a lone at night while he is in the hospital, fear that our 19 year old fur baby won't be here when my husband gets home. Our fur baby has been on "kitty hospice" for three months with us here at home. It seems unmanageable at the moment. Afraid to get over taken again tonight. My head was so crazy last night.

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2018 1:42 pm
by child#6
Well tomorrow morning at 7:30 is surgery time. Need to be at the hospital for 5:30.Thankfully we live 10 minutes away. Also found out this morning my 52 year old sister has breast cancer which will require treatment post surgery. I am feeling really stressed.

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2018 2:37 pm
by NHMike
child#6 wrote:Well tomorrow morning at 7:30 is surgery time. Need to be at the hospital for 5:30.Thankfully we live 10 minutes away. Also found out this morning my 52 year old sister has breast cancer which will require treatment post surgery. I am feeling really stressed.


I'm sure that you have a lot to do ahead of the surgery and we'll see you on the other side.

Re: New cancer diagnosis. Ugh!!

Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2018 8:36 pm
by child#6
Although neither my husband and I are not particularly worried it's going to be a long week until the pathology is back.