I was Dx a month after u Dec 4th 2017
Another date I'll never forget
It's a tough road, but the be just had a reaction to oxaliplatin so it's been stopped before now so on 5fu only without any side effects,, my oncologist said that oxaliplatin only ups Ur chance by about 5% to which I don't understand then why a lot of older people go on it because I would not consider the benefit to outweigh the sideffects IN certain situations.
IE: If I was 70 I wouldn't take oxaliplatin ,, only 5FU
That said IM NOT,, Im 47 single parent with a young family so I'm begging them to try it again even tho the risks of fatality are strong ( worse case sinario) because I want to add every chance I can to my life for my kids,,,,
U've obviously had such a hard time with this so I can totally understand Ur frustration and mental exhaustion,, BUT uve come so far now to just give up!!!!!!!!! Shurly Ur over the WORST!!!!!!!!! now it's all about surveillance and swift action . Maybe a few days to clear Ur head and regroup??????
At the end its Ur choice,,, and u will do what's right for you and your family,,,,
It's not easy nor is it fair but no one is guaranteed anything unfortunately life is tough
Wishing u many many years for NED,,,,