Zig2017 wrote:Dear one,
I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now. I know it is so hard thinking about losing a life partner, and it must be even harder with children. My heart hurts for you but there is still hope and time if they are treating him. Your hubby sounds like a very strong man. The treatments aren’t easy I know. Please try to surround yourself with supportive family and friends and I hope you have someone close to share things on a spiritual level. Whether that be minister, rabbi, etc. I also think speaking openly and honestly with hubby as he goes through treatment is vital. Most of all love on him a lot. I wrote a long post here yesterday on the status of my husband’s journey, but it apparently didn’t post. My sincere love and prayers go out to you, and I’m hoping your family is trying to keep things as normal a routine as possible for the kids. I also learned if someone wants to help with kids, house, groceries and whatever, let them. They sincerely want to express love and want to help. All my love, Mrs Ziggy
Oh, the fact that you took the time to encourage me in the midst of your grief...you are a wonderful person. I didn't know he had passed when I wrote that last night. I'm so sorry.