Sending my deepest sympathies to you & DH, for the loss of your precious daughter & to your sons for the loss of their sister. It is the reverse order of the way we parents think things should be. The further I read your story, the word "difficult" became an understatement. I admire your courage & strength. Not sure I could have made the right decision re: my pet given the circumstances. After an accident & crushed wrist, one of my sons was helped w/donated bone. Through you & your DH your daughter continues to make a difference.
Again, my deepest sympathy & Best Wishes to you, DH in health & healing.
DSS,35YO,unresect mCRC DX 7/'14,lvr,LN,peri,rib
FOLFOX+Avstn 4 Rnds d/c 10/'14
Gone From My Sight 2/20/15
Me:garden variety polyps + precancerous polyp
Carergver x2 DH,DM dbl occupancy,'03-'10
DH dx 47YO mCRC,'04-'07 fried x HAI
DM dx CC 85YO,CC,CHF,stroke,dementia,aphasia