My mom's journey is over

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LMighty
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My mom's journey is over

Postby LMighty » Wed Sep 13, 2017 3:27 pm

Despite recent scans showing gradual improvements, immunotherapy failed and rapid progression led to heart, lung and kidney failure in days. My mom passed away peacefully today. She fought a fierce battle with this dreadful disease. She is in a better place now.

I would like to thank everyone on this board for accompanying my mom on her journey.
Supporter to my mom (64 yr); KRAS wild type; MSS

2012: DX Stage I, rectal cancer; resection and colostomy
5/16: DX Stage III, mets found; right groin lymph node and soft tissue
5-6/16: Radiation + Xeloda
7/16: DX Stage IV, pleural effusion; cancer cells found in fluid
7-12/16: Xelox + Avastin X 6
1/17: Clean PET scan, NED
2/17: Pleural effusion; recurrence
4/17: Iri + Erb X 3
5/17: Ascites; Chemo failed
6/17: Keytruda X 1
7/17: TECENTRIQ (atezolizumab) + COTELLIC (cobimetinib)
9/17: At peace

aja1121
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Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby aja1121 » Wed Sep 13, 2017 3:33 pm

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.
DH dx Stage 3B rectal ca 5/23/14 (age 41) from Mpls, MN
6/14 Xeloda + 30 rad
10/14 LAR/ileo, all 12 nodes clean
12/14-04/15 FOLFOX x 10
05/15 VATS, single lung met
06/15 ileo reversal, 09/15 local recurrence, 10/15 permanent colostomy
11/15 FOLFIRI x 4, 01/16 major growth, 10 more rad
02/16 curative resection failed, tumor debulked
03/16 FOLFOX x 4
11/16 Xeloda/Avastin until progression seen 08/17
09/17 start NCT02024607 (BBI608 + FOLFIRI arm)

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susie0915
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Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby susie0915 » Wed Sep 13, 2017 3:45 pm

I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.
58 yr old mother of 3 Dx @ 55
5/15 DX T3N0MO/ 2A
6/15 5 wks of chemo/rad
7/15 sigmoidoscopy/scar tissue left
8/15 Pet scan NED
9/15 LAR
0/24 nodes
10/15 Bowel blockage. 3 1/2 weeks in hospital,early ileo rev since
surgery to repair blockage. c-diff inf :(
12/15 6 rds of xelox
5/16 Clear CT lung scarring/inflammation
9/16 clear colonoscopy
4/17 CT 4mm lung nod onc thinks scar tissue
monitored for autoimmune disorder/interstitial lung disease
7/17 no change lung nodule
10/17 Clear CT

Robino1
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Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby Robino1 » Wed Sep 13, 2017 3:50 pm

I'm am so sorry
At 54 2014 1st colonoscopy colon cancer detected.
Colon resect right ascending
margins clear. No chemo req
2017
Distended abd, pain in intestines.
CT scan shows seeding
Ascites causing the distention.
Lap diag - cancer on the omentum
CEA 217
CEA 219
PET cancer on the omentum, susp activ right abdomen
FOLFOX started 6/17
CEA 202
Not genetic
8/29/17 CT scan showed excellent melting of the tumor. Chemo is working!
Ascites is gone
CEA: 9/30/17 -109; 10/12/17 - 99.1; 11/4/17 - 90.7

Joannerogers
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Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby Joannerogers » Wed Sep 13, 2017 3:55 pm

Sad news! I'm sorry!
53yo married 27 years, 2 children, 24 and 25
Diagnosed april 23,2015 rectosigmoid
Starting CEA 1845
Port placement and liver bx April 27
Folfox started april 29
Avastin added on May 6
Stage IV crc with mets to 50% of liver

10/13/15 dc'd transfusion #12...toxic
Pet/ct scan on 11/3/15
20% liver resected all margins clear 11/30/15
8/18/15 cea 21.
9/15/15 cea 13.9
10/13/15 cea 14.4
1/22/2016 cea 2.5
LAR 02/15/16 all clear

benben
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Location: Washington State

Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby benben » Wed Sep 13, 2017 6:20 pm

Very sorry to hear.

May you find some peace in these difficult times and keep your mom's memory alive.

best wishes,
many hugs!
----------------------
3/29/17 diagnosed CRC - 44 y/o Male
4/17/17 ULAR - Straight anastomosis - no ostomy.
Path: low grade T3n1m0 - moderate diff.
KRAS - NO, MLH1/PMS2/MSH6/MSH2 - Normal.
5/3 med port install
5/22 folfox - first treatment.
3rd treat, delayed - low ANC - reduced to 90% OXI
Granix given, Now Zarxio treatments every session.
Treatment 7 reduced to 75% OXI
Treatment 8-12 - NO OXI, just Luke and 5FU
Current - 12 treatments done, CBC good, CEA decreasing.
10/20/17 CT-SCAN - CLEAR

Lee
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Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby Lee » Wed Sep 13, 2017 6:29 pm

Please accept my condolences on the passing of your mom. She fought a brave battle with this cancer. There is a special thread for those left behind, you might want to check it out.

viewtopic.php?f=1&t=46183

Feel free to hang around here, maybe you can help the next person starting this journey.

All the best to you,

Lee
rectal cancer - April 2004
46 yrs old at diagnoses
stage III C - 6/13 lymph positive
radiation - 6 weeks
surgery - August 2004/hernia repair 2014
permanent colostomy
chemo - FOLFOX
NED - 10 years and counting!

AussieAssCancer
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Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby AussieAssCancer » Wed Sep 13, 2017 6:48 pm

So very, very sorry to hear. What a lucky woman your mother was to have you to support her. I wish you nothing but peace.

AAC
Dx Oct '15 w/ Stage 3c RC
Nov '15 - Jan '16: 3x FOLFOX and 5wks Chemoradiation w/ Xeloda
March '16: ULAR w/ temp ileostomy
Complete pathological response incl 0/12 nodes
April '16: Clear CT (NED)
May - Aug '16: 9x FOLFOX (dropped Oxaliplatin for final Rd due to neuropathy)
Dec '16: Clear CT (NED)
Feb '17: Ileostomy reversed
Aug '17: Clear CT (NED)

Blog: kickingrectalcancerintheassblog
https://kickingrectalcancerintheassblog.wordpress.com/

DebZ
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Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby DebZ » Wed Sep 13, 2017 8:03 pm

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. I lost my mom a year ago and though I know it was a blessing, it's still hard every day without her. My thoughts are with you.
48 @ diagnosis Sept 2014
MSS; Kras mutant G12D
Oct 2014: right hemicolectomy
Dec 2014: Folfox 12 treatments (lots of reductions in oxaliplatin and ceased before end)
June 2015: clean scans
Sept 2015: scans reveal ovarian mass and liver met; Folfiri
Jan 2016: liver wedge resection and complete hysterectomy
April 2016: multiple lung mets; Folfiri+Avastin
June 2017: lung mets growing; switching to Folfox+Avastin

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Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby ocstacy » Thu Sep 14, 2017 3:30 am

my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Hugs and god bless you.
Caregiver/daughter to dear mother age 77, dx 5/09/17 because of me!! :wink:
Rectal CA Stage 3 low-grade adenocarcinoma- 6 cm
Neoadjuv. Chemo/Rad. start 7/10/17 ended 08/16/17
3D Lap. surgery @ Keck USC, Dr. Sang Lee 10/17/17 temp ileostomy
11/1 back @ hospital due 2 abscess/hernia - back home 11/06/17 antibiotics
NO LYMPHS INVOLVED! NEAR PATHOLOGICAL RESPONSE! YAY! :shock:
Chemo Xeloda post-surgery following reversal 2018
Me: Colonoscopy age 38. 08/17 Benign polp.
Hemmy's post partum:roll:

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BeansMama
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Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby BeansMama » Thu Sep 14, 2017 5:34 am

I'm so sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
41 yrs old
Tumor found 9/2015
Surgery 1 - 11/2015 LAR and colostomy
Surgery 2 - 11/2015 wound vac
Surgery 3 - 12/2015 revise resection, move colostomy
Mets to liver - tumor inoperable - one add'l met destroyed
Stage IVa (T3 N2a M1a)
Primary tumor 9 cm x 7.5 cm x 2 cm
Beginning Folfox 1/2016 - Failed
Beginning Folfiri and vectibix 8/2016 — Failed
Beginning Folfirinox + Avastin 11/2016 - Failed
Beginning Keytruda 1/2017
CEA drop from 345 to 7.3 after starting immunotherapy
Lynch positive 3/2016

mariane
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Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby mariane » Thu Sep 14, 2017 7:42 am

I am very sorry.
mom of 8 years old twins, dx @ 40 with upper rectal cancer, 10+ liver mets in 6/2015, CEA 140
chemo: 8/2015 - 10/2016 - 4xFOLFIRINOX, 2xFOLFOX, 8xFOLFIRI, 10x5FU, HAI pump -12xFUDR
4 surgeries, complete pathological response
CEA<2 since 10/2015
NED since May 2016

I praise God for every day with my family!

SweetC80
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Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby SweetC80 » Thu Sep 14, 2017 8:14 am

I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
My Mom's history
68 years old at diagnoses
12/16 Stage IIIb Rectal Cancer CEA 1.2
1/17-2/17 Chemoradiation CEA 4.4
5/17 Entire Colon (9 non resectable pre cancerous polyps), Rectum and Anus removal Perm Ileostomy Bag
7/17 Starts FOLFOX
9/17 Stage IV 9cm Liver Met plus abdominal Lymph Nods and suspicious Lung Nodule CEA 197
9/17 Starts Irincotecan CEA 160
10/17 Confirmed KRAS Positive CEA 210
11/17 CEA 425 waiting on scan

ValZen
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Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby ValZen » Thu Sep 14, 2017 8:32 am

My heart goes out to you and your family LMighty. Please accept my prayers and condolences during such a difficult time.

Mercy110
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Re: My mom's journey is over

Postby Mercy110 » Thu Sep 14, 2017 8:51 am

So sorry to hear this news. I will pray for your family. Take care.
Daughter of Mum age 56, NRAS-mutate Q61R
2017-05: Surgery done. Temporary stoma. Path: T4N1M0. Stage3C
2017-06: Chemo - Xeloda. Rejected radio. CEA: 7.3
2017-08: CEA: 8.0 (1st) CEA: 9.8 (2nd) CT Scan: Multiple lung nodules. Stage4
2017-09: Chemo - FOLFOX + Avastin, 85% for serious diarrhea CEA: 7.0
CEA: 4.7 (10/10), 3.7 (10/11)

WISH ALL MIGHTY GOD HEALS MUM WITH HIS MIRACLE


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