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Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Fri Nov 03, 2017 6:18 pm
by teacher2017
Hi all-
Just had my port put in and it was rather uneventful. Yes it's sore and black and blue but it wasn't nearly the drama I made it out to be in my head. The nurses and the dr were very nice and funny too. Totally changed my mood. The music in the OR was very helpful too. I think the dr actually sang. It was amusing to say the least.

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Fri Nov 03, 2017 7:16 pm
by susie0915
Good. Any positive experience helps in dealing with all you are going through. One step closer to being done with treatment. Have a good night.

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Fri Nov 03, 2017 8:08 pm
by Robino1
The unknown is ALWAYS the scariest. Once you get past that, you got it made! :)

Next hurdle is the first chemo session. You got this!!!!

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Fri Nov 03, 2017 11:41 pm
by Shana
Hi teacher,

I'm glad to hear the port placement went smoothly, they played music during my procedure too and I think one of the male nurses sang. It was actually very nice and made it seem very routine like a visit to the dentist (with better drugs!) I had no pain during procedure and like you said it was pretty easy.

I was supposed to see a oncology counselor a few weeks ago but had to cancel due to the fires. I have found myself less focused on my cancer worries and more focused on the members of my community who were affected by the fire. I had felt somewhat without direction so I was drawn to volunteering and comforting others. I still think about the battle being fought inside my body, I'm sure I always will no matter what my status is but it's been a welcome break to focus on something else besides cancer.

I want to learn more about meditation and relaxation techniques to keep my stress level low. I hope we all learn what works best in coping with this disease. attitude and spirit matter. You're going to do great teacher, you have come so far since you first came to the forum, you're much stronger and in control. Like Robin said, you've got this, Susie is the spirit of positivity and Anne is right about counseling and availing yourself of any support out there.

Have a wonderful weekend everyone!

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2017 6:24 am
by teacher2017
Thank you all for all your words of wisdom and honesty. The port is a bit painful this morning- in fact it could be just as annoying as the resection. I took two extra strength tylenol and it took away the constant ache. The needle in the vein isn't what hurts- it's the port button itself. I feel like a cyborg. Something out of Dr. Who. I told the surgeon that I don't want to see him until he removes it. And he said he would gladly do it and he will do a dance for me in the OR afterwards. Why can't all surgeons be human like this?! Have a good weekend, folks.

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2017 7:52 am
by Aqx99
teacher2017 wrote:Thank you all for all your words of wisdom and honesty. The port is a bit painful this morning- in fact it could be just as annoying as the resection. I took two extra strength tylenol and it took away the constant ache. The needle in the vein isn't what hurts- it's the port button itself. I feel like a cyborg. Something out of Dr. Who. I told the surgeon that I don't want to see him until he removes it. And he said he would gladly do it and he will do a dance for me in the OR afterwards. Why can't all surgeons be human like this?! Have a good weekend, folks.


My port hurt for about a week, getting better each day. Then for a few more weeks it felt heavy inside my chest. As the tissue healed around it, I eventually got to the point that I almost forget it is there. Don't forget to use your lidocaine cream on infusion days!

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2017 8:15 am
by Robino1
It takes a while to get used to it. There will be some pain for about a week. It is still an incision from a surgical procedure.

I was so afraid of it hurting for a month after. Only giving sideways hugs, patting it clean in the shower, gently patting it dry, gently putting lotion on. Now it's no big deal. I actually am friends with it now. It's saving my life and it is my badge of courage.

Lidocaine is a LIFESAVER.

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2017 8:47 am
by teacher2017
Aqx99 wrote:
teacher2017 wrote:Thank you all for all your words of wisdom and honesty. The port is a bit painful this morning- in fact it could be just as annoying as the resection. I took two extra strength tylenol and it took away the constant ache. The needle in the vein isn't what hurts- it's the port button itself. I feel like a cyborg. Something out of Dr. Who. I told the surgeon that I don't want to see him until he removes it. And he said he would gladly do it and he will do a dance for me in the OR afterwards. Why can't all surgeons be human like this?! Have a good weekend, folks.


My port hurt for about a week, getting better each day. Then for a few more weeks it felt heavy inside my chest. As the tissue healed around it, I eventually got to the point that I almost forget it is there. Don't forget to use your lidocaine cream on infusion days!


Can I use the lidocaine this soon? Even 5 days after the surgery?

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2017 9:04 am
by Robino1
If you don't have a dressing on it, go for it. I wish I could have that first time. They did my first chemo just 3 days after placement and I still had the dressing so I couldn't even use the lidocaine if I had even had it at that time.

The first time is a bitch since it is still sore after surgery.

Remember to put it on an hour before the scheduled chemo. Use a small square of plastic wrap to cover.

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2017 9:16 am
by teacher2017
Robino1 wrote:If you don't have a dressing on it, go for it. I wish I could have that first time. They did my first chemo just 3 days after placement and I still had the dressing so I couldn't even use the lidocaine if I had even had it at that time.

The first time is a bitch since it is still sore after surgery.

Remember to put it on an hour before the scheduled chemo. Use a small square of plastic wrap to cover.


Does surgical tape count as dressing? Damn. How the hell is it gonna heal if it's being poked every 2 weeks?????

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2017 10:02 am
by Robino1
Mine had a plastic sheet type thing over it. A tape is easy to remove. It actually heals quite quickly. Mine still looks bruised but I think it is the color of the port that I'm seeing. I've had mine since June.

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2017 3:17 pm
by Shana
Robino1 wrote:It takes a while to get used to it. There will be some pain for about a week. It is still an incision from a surgical procedure.

I was so afraid of it hurting for a month after. Only giving sideways hugs, patting it clean in the shower, gently patting it dry, gently putting lotion on. Now it's no big deal. I actually am friends with it now. It's saving my life and it is my badge of courage.

Lidocaine is a LIFESAVER.


I was very careful with mine too but now I barely give "Violet" a thought except on infusion days. I don't use anything to numb her anymore because I ended up getting an itchy rash which was more annoying than the needle stick but it was nice to have it numbed.

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2017 7:04 pm
by Aqx99
teacher2017 wrote:
Aqx99 wrote:
teacher2017 wrote:Thank you all for all your words of wisdom and honesty. The port is a bit painful this morning- in fact it could be just as annoying as the resection. I took two extra strength tylenol and it took away the constant ache. The needle in the vein isn't what hurts- it's the port button itself. I feel like a cyborg. Something out of Dr. Who. I told the surgeon that I don't want to see him until he removes it. And he said he would gladly do it and he will do a dance for me in the OR afterwards. Why can't all surgeons be human like this?! Have a good weekend, folks.


My port hurt for about a week, getting better each day. Then for a few more weeks it felt heavy inside my chest. As the tissue healed around it, I eventually got to the point that I almost forget it is there. Don't forget to use your lidocaine cream on infusion days!


Can I use the lidocaine this soon? Even 5 days after the surgery?


As long as you don't have a bandage on it, sure. It was recommended to me to use Press N Seal to cover the cream. It sticks to the skin really well. I got my port on a Friday and my first infusion the following Monday, so I was unable to use the lidocaine the first time. It didn't hurt that bad, less than being stuck in the arm for a blood draw. I also had heat rash under the bandage, which did not help.

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2017 8:04 pm
by teacher2017
Hi all-
Day 1 of round 1 of folfox. Completely uneventful today. My mind is my worst enemy! The port access was not felt at all but the wait was horrific! Then we were brought to the chemo suite. 85 min of Oxi/Flou. Then home with the pump. It's small and does not make any noise. Got some first bite but no cold sensitivity yet. Hoping tomorrow is no nausea or cold issues. But I must say I have a really big headache!
Thanks for all your advice,
Lydia

Re: NEW-Need some positivity here.

Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2017 8:20 pm
by Robino1
teacher2017 wrote:Hi all-
Day 1 of round 1 of folfox. Completely uneventful today. My mind is my worst enemy! The port access was not felt at all but the wait was horrific! Then we were brought to the chemo suite. 85 min of Oxi/Flou. Then home with the pump. It's small and does not make any noise. Got some first bite but no cold sensitivity yet. Hoping tomorrow is no nausea or cold issues. But I must say I have a really big headache!
Thanks for all your advice,
Lydia


Did you get a prescription for anti nausea meds? I take a pill in the afternoon that my pump is disconnected. They give you anti nausea meds in the port. That usually lasts 3 days. I haven't needed to take another pill till the next go round. I am still using my first prescription pills.

If you stay on top of nausea, you win :D It's harder to get a handle after the fact.