Cathie wrote:Well.....do I dare say it? He's a jerk....
PS remind him that "karmas a bitch."
He's already finding that out. I can tell he is miserable living in his parents' double wide. I think he honestly thought I would beg him to come back after a few days. Instead, he got notice from me that I had started boxing up his belongings and they were in the garage for him to pick up when he scheduled a time with me. Ever since he has been sending me snotty messages, basically trying to ruin my happiness. I figure he's doing that because he is so unhappy. He has already found out how much money I was spending on him to live the lifestyle he wanted. I have to say, I was a little giddy to find out that within days of leaving he had to replace the brakes and tires on his van. Normally I would have paid for that. I'm finding that I am saving a ton of money with him out of the house. My electric bill has gone down by almost 75%, I can't wait to see what my water bill is when I get it, not to mention that I am no longer buying groceries to feed him (he eats enough for 4 people at one sitting). He actually had the nerve to tell me that I would miss his paycheck when he left.
Stage IIIB Rectal Cancer
Diagnosed at age 39
2/21/17 CEA 0.9 ng/mL
3/23/17 - 5/2/17 Chemoradiation, 28 treatments
6/14/17 Robotic LAR with temp loop ileostomy, ovaries and fallopian tubes removed, 2/21 lymph nodes positive
7/24/17 Started CapeOx
7/24/17 Diagnosed with precursor ovarian cancer
9/6/17 CA 125 11.1 U/mL