My husband walked out

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Cathie
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Re: My husband walked out

Postby Cathie » Wed Oct 04, 2017 10:03 pm

Well.....do I dare say it? He's a jerk....

Cathie

PS remind him that "karmas a bitch."
Dx'd colo rectal cancer Oct 2002
radiation chemo November December 2002
Surgery Mar 2003 which was a temp ileo
Summer of 2003 more chemo
Ileo reversed Mar 2004
Cancer free since then

Aqx99
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Re: My husband walked out

Postby Aqx99 » Thu Oct 05, 2017 3:16 pm

Cathie wrote:Well.....do I dare say it? He's a jerk....

Cathie

PS remind him that "karmas a bitch."


He's already finding that out. I can tell he is miserable living in his parents' double wide. I think he honestly thought I would beg him to come back after a few days. Instead, he got notice from me that I had started boxing up his belongings and they were in the garage for him to pick up when he scheduled a time with me. Ever since he has been sending me snotty messages, basically trying to ruin my happiness. I figure he's doing that because he is so unhappy. He has already found out how much money I was spending on him to live the lifestyle he wanted. I have to say, I was a little giddy to find out that within days of leaving he had to replace the brakes and tires on his van. Normally I would have paid for that. I'm finding that I am saving a ton of money with him out of the house. My electric bill has gone down by almost 75%, I can't wait to see what my water bill is when I get it, not to mention that I am no longer buying groceries to feed him (he eats enough for 4 people at one sitting). He actually had the nerve to tell me that I would miss his paycheck when he left.
Anne, 39
Stage IIIB Rectal Cancer
T3N1bM0
Diagnosed at age 39
2/21/17 Diagnosis
2/21/17 CEA 0.9 ng/mL
3/23/17 - 5/2/17 Chemoradiation, 28 treatments
6/14/17 Robotic LAR with temp loop ileostomy, ovaries and fallopian tubes removed, 2/21 lymph nodes positive
7/24/17 Started CapeOx
7/24/17 Diagnosed with precursor ovarian cancer
9/6/17 CA 125 11.1 U/mL
1/18ish Reversal

Robino1
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Re: My husband walked out

Postby Robino1 » Thu Oct 05, 2017 3:25 pm

Aqx99 wrote:
Cathie wrote:Well.....do I dare say it? He's a jerk....

Cathie

PS remind him that "karmas a bitch."


He's already finding that out. I can tell he is miserable living in his parents' double wide. I think he honestly thought I would beg him to come back after a few days. Instead, he got notice from me that I had started boxing up his belongings and they were in the garage for him to pick up when he scheduled a time with me. Ever since he has been sending me snotty messages, basically trying to ruin my happiness. I figure he's doing that because he is so unhappy. He has already found out how much money I was spending on him to live the lifestyle he wanted. I have to say, I was a little giddy to find out that within days of leaving he had to replace the brakes and tires on his van. Normally I would have paid for that. I'm finding that I am saving a ton of money with him out of the house. My electric bill has gone down by almost 75%, I can't wait to see what my water bill is when I get it, not to mention that I am no longer buying groceries to feed him (he eats enough for 4 people at one sitting). He actually had the nerve to tell me that I would miss his paycheck when he left.


I actually snorted on your last sentence!! :lol:
At 54 2014 1st colonoscopy colon cancer detected.
Colon resect right ascending
margins clear. No chemo req
2017
Distended ab pain in intestines.
CT scan shows seeding
Ascites causing the distention.
Lap diag - cancer on the omentum
CEA 217
CEA 219
PET cancer on the omentum, susp activ right abdomen
FOLFOX started 6/17
CEA 202
Not genetic
8/29/17 CT scan showed excellent melting of the tumor. Chemo is working!
Ascites is gone
9/30/17 CEA 109! Going down!

TXLiz
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Re: My husband walked out

Postby TXLiz » Sat Oct 07, 2017 10:37 am

Aqx99 wrote:
Cathie wrote:Well.....do I dare say it? He's a jerk....

Cathie

PS remind him that "karmas a bitch."


He's already finding that out. I can tell he is miserable living in his parents' double wide. I think he honestly thought I would beg him to come back after a few days. Instead, he got notice from me that I had started boxing up his belongings and they were in the garage for him to pick up when he scheduled a time with me. Ever since he has been sending me snotty messages, basically trying to ruin my happiness. I figure he's doing that because he is so unhappy. He has already found out how much money I was spending on him to live the lifestyle he wanted. I have to say, I was a little giddy to find out that within days of leaving he had to replace the brakes and tires on his van. Normally I would have paid for that. I'm finding that I am saving a ton of money with him out of the house. My electric bill has gone down by almost 75%, I can't wait to see what my water bill is when I get it, not to mention that I am no longer buying groceries to feed him (he eats enough for 4 people at one sitting). He actually had the nerve to tell me that I would miss his paycheck when he left.


I am so sorry for your situation. I don't want to thread jack but yeah my marriage is a flaming dumpster fire, so complete understanding here. hugs and more hugs

However, your financial triumph is hilarious! Good for you! IMHO he's made his bed, now he can enjoy his filthy sheets.
Vomiting and blockage 9/19/16 46 y F
R hemi colectomy 9/20/16
Stage 3 B CRC, located in cecum
3 out of 16 lymph nodes positive
perineural invasion/lymphovascular invasion
infiltrating, mod differentiated adenocarcinoma with a mucinous component
separate tumor nodules present in pericolonic adipose tissue
Baseline PET scan clear 9/16 CEA 0.5
FOLFOX 10/16- 3/17
April 16th, CT scan clear. CEA 1.1
Lynch "inconclusive"
Colonoscopy 10/5/2017 clear

teacher2017
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Re: My husband walked out

Postby teacher2017 » Tue Oct 10, 2017 8:00 pm

Sometimes blessing come in different disguises. I always say the best revenge is success. Best wishes for a happier and healthier life.
48 year old female- mom of 2 (12,15)
DX stage 3c - 12/17 LN. T3
8" sigmoid resection Sept 22 2017
6.1cm tumor size
chemo -folfox
Terrified


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