BeansMama,
You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Sorry for all that is happening to you. Yes, know that this too shall pass and you will watch your DD grow up.
Lee
BeansMama wrote:Thank you everyone,
Your support has moved me to tears - but good tears.
I am seeing a therapist to make sense of the whole debacle. I have been for a little while now and I think that is one reason why I am doing much better with the whole thing.
I did make a stipulation when I first found out that absolutely nothing would happen in that department until I was healthy and recovered enough that I no longer needed assistance with some things and that I was able to be on mom duty 24/5 or whatever visitation we work out without any issues. So for now we live as room mates trying to co parent and be at least civil to one another. Some days it is easier than others.
I keep telling myself this too will pass and my future will be brighter than ever. If I can tackle all of this, anything else is a piece of cake.
CRguy wrote:BeansMama wrote:Thank you everyone,
Your support has moved me to tears - but good tears.
I am seeing a therapist to make sense of the whole debacle. I have been for a little while now and I think that is one reason why I am doing much better with the whole thing.
I did make a stipulation when I first found out that absolutely nothing would happen in that department until I was healthy and recovered enough that I no longer needed assistance with some things and that I was able to be on mom duty 24/5 or whatever visitation we work out without any issues. So for now we live as room mates trying to co parent and be at least civil to one another. Some days it is easier than others.
I keep telling myself this too will pass and my future will be brighter than ever. If I can tackle all of this, anything else is a piece of cake.
WORD sista' .... WORD !!!!
just to share with you BM ( )
I have been the "left behind" partner, not for the same reasons as your situation, just that "we" grew apart ... apparently
I found a counsellor who was raw and real and my takehome was :
"You have only ONE nervous system you can protect in life ... Your Own.
Forget your expectations of others, they will let you down. What do YOU need in life ? "
Counselling / therapy will not fix you. It will help YOU discover what YOU NEED, to be who YOU are, and how to get it.
You may well find the strength you need to be who YOU ARE was inside you all the time, and NOW is the time to let it out
....AND LET IT SHINE !
my WORD to you my friend
You are who you need to be already ... now let it SHINE !!!!!!!!!!
Peace Love and Harmony
CRguy
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