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My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 3:32 pm
by exaussie
On Saturday night our daughter left to go to her senior prom. By 6pm she took her own life. Colon cancer took her brother and her depression went to hyper mode. She never spoke of her brother, and many other things.
We are shattered, cancer kills but depression is just as @deadly. Survivors, caretakers, loved ones are vulnerable to hopelessness. Get help, if you see someone withdraw then suddenly seem OK, anything like that please get them to go get help. We tried, she had gone to counseling. We tried to get her to admit it and go to a hospital but she knew we couldn't make her.
Gather your family and friends and tell them you love them.

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 3:38 pm
by CRguy
I have no words ......
I hold you in virtual love
and my heart goes out to you

CRguy

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 3:51 pm
by peanut_8
so very sorry

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 3:58 pm
by BeansMama
So very sorry, keeping you in my prayers.

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 4:15 pm
by Kick'nAssCancer'sAss
Tragic events in your life. There are no words.

You will always find support here.

Stay strong and chin up.

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 4:21 pm
by Willow.NZ
I am so deeply sorry for your loss, I truely cannot imagine the pain of what you have endured.

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 5:19 pm
by GrouseMan
Very sorry for your loss. I am borderline depressive, maybe some what manic as well. Its been many years since I was heading towards that kind of black despair. Its been my wife that has kept it at bay all this many years. I've never been bad enough to require medication, and I am very reluctant to consider that as I depend too much on my mental faculties to have them dulled by medications. I can't comprehend how terrible it must be to loose your son and then your daughter!

Best wishes to you. Be strong and don't let despair get another toe hold on your family!

GrouseMan

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 5:39 pm
by Phuong
Absolutely no words. Just lots of love for you and your family.

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 5:40 pm
by Stanfordmom
I am So So sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family.

Sha

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 5:41 pm
by ams5796
So very sorry. Love to you and your family.



Ann

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 6:56 pm
by jhocno197
I know there are no helpful words, but I am so very sorry.

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 7:46 pm
by NZJay
So incredibly sorry for your family's loss.

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 7:54 pm
by pantufla
Oh no. Words are not enough. I'm so sorry. :cry:

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 7:58 pm
by edinaman
I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Re: My forum family

Posted: Tue May 16, 2017 9:48 pm
by DebZ
I am so very sorry. I lost both parents this past year suddenly, and as hard as that's been, I can't imagine losing a child, much less two. Sending prayers for you and your family.