My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

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Brikee
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My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby Brikee » Tue Feb 14, 2017 1:30 pm

With a heavy heart, I just want to share that my husband, Andy Quang Truc Pham, joined the Lord on Monday January 23rd at 2.20am. He fought a long painful battle with colon cancer and is now in peace. We appreciate everyone's support, thoughts and prayers during his fight. Before he took his last breath and he knew where he would spend his eternity. He gave instructions not to be sadden and to be happy because he will be in peace with the Lord.

We set up a memorial site for him here:
https://sites.google.com/site/andyquang ... al/service

It's been a little over three weeks since his passing and I miss him so much. I just wanted to thank everyone for your advice, guidance and support. You all are so courageous and brave. May God give you strength.

Sincerely,
Thao (brikee)
Hubby DX CC IV 7/15/16 - primary 6cm (mets to peri, liver, lungs) 36yo. BRAF mutation.
Folfox. 9x (7/22 – 11/3)
Neulasta 7x (9/10- 12/29)
Folfox + Irinotecan (folirinox) 1x(11/17)
IVC Filter, Endo 1cm ulcer stomach (11/25)
Folfirinox 1x(12/1)
Tenkoff (12/9)
5FU + Panitumumab (Vectibix) (12/15)
CEA: 958 (7/21), 186 (11/17), 252 (12/1), 337 (12/29)
Last CT: 10/27, two sm nodes in lung decr in half. 2 nodes prev in liver, 1 decreased, 1 not vis.
Joined Lord @ 1/23

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Maia
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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby Maia » Tue Feb 14, 2017 1:45 pm

I'm so sorry, Thao. May you be soon feeling less sadness, and may you only be surrounded by the love you and Andy have shared, the love you share. Love stays.

lpas
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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby lpas » Tue Feb 14, 2017 1:45 pm

I'm so very sorry. What a terribly tragedy to lose someone so young. :(
11/14 Dx sigmoid CC @ 45yo
12/14 Colectomy + hysterectomy
Stage IIIB, T3N1bM0, 2/20 nodes, MSS, G2, KRAS(A146T), TP53, SMAD4, ERBB2, CEA 1.0
2/15-7/15 XELOX & celecoxib
2/19 clean scope
11/19 clean CT
Ongoing cimetidine & other targeted supplements
Mom to a 6 & 8yo

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chrissyrice
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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby chrissyrice » Tue Feb 14, 2017 1:51 pm

I am so sorry for your loss. May you and your children treasure his memory and know he is at peace and free from suffering.

Comfort to you,
Chrissy
DX 10-31-09 Surgery 12-1-09 Sigmoid Colon
Stage IIIb T3,N2,MX; Chemo Feb 2010-Aug 2010; 4 rounds Folfox; 8 rounds 5FU +LV
12/2010 PET/CT Scan, Cancer Free
7/2012 CT Scan NED 2 years
10/2013 NED 3 years
8/2014 NED 4 years
Recurrence 6/2015: iliac lymph node(s)
8/2015 Surgery: 3 cm tumor removed+iliac artery graft
3/2016 CT Scan Stable
6/2016 Stable
9/2016 Stable
12/2016 Stable
3/2017 Stable
Recurrence 6/2017
12/2017 Surgery removed all cancer w/ clean margins
07-27-2018 Cancer-free for 7 months

jhocno197
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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby jhocno197 » Tue Feb 14, 2017 3:19 pm

I am so sorry.
DH - dx Dec 2014, stage IV with bladder & peritoneal involvement - non-resectable
Colostomy
FOLFOX failed
FOLFIRI failed
Tumor actually distending pelvic skin
Not a candidate for last-ditch pelvic exenteration
Stivarga finally begun 2/19/16
Tumor growing/fungating
Lonsurf started 11/18/16
Died 3/10/17

DarknessEmbraced
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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby DarknessEmbraced » Tue Feb 14, 2017 4:37 pm

I'm so very sorry for the loss of your husband!*hugs* My deepest condolences!
Diagnosed 10/28/14, age 36
Colon Resection 11/20/14, LAR (no illeo)
Stage 2a colon cancer, T3NOMO
Lymph-vascular invasion undetermined
0/22 lymph nodes
No chemo, no radiation
Clear Colonoscopy 04/29/15
NED 10/20/15
Ischemic Colitis 01/21/16
NED 11/10/16
CT Scan moved up due to high CEA 08/21/17
NED 09/25/17
NED 12/21/18
Clear colonoscopy 09/23/19
Clear 5 year scans 11/21/19- Considered cured! :)

AussieAssCancer
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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby AussieAssCancer » Tue Feb 14, 2017 7:11 pm

So very sorry to hear. It is a horrible disease! Find solace in the many wonderful memories you no doubt have.
Dx Oct '15 w/ Stage 3c RC/ CEA 8
Nov '15 - Jan '16: 3x FOLFOX and 5wks Chemoradiation w/ Xeloda
March '16: ULAR w/ temp ileostomy
Complete pathological response incl 0/12 nodes
May - Aug '16: 9x FOLFOX (dropped Oxaliplatin for final Rd due to neuropathy)
Clear CT scans in April ‘16 (NED), Dec ‘16, Aug ‘17, Feb ‘18, March ‘19, Feb ‘20
Feb '17: Ileostomy reversed
CEA Post Surgery: ALWAYS 2

Blog: kickingrectalcancerintheassblog
https://kickingrectalcancerintheassblog.wordpress.com/

teri3
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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby teri3 » Tue Feb 14, 2017 7:39 pm

I am so sorry at your loss , but glad your husband is at peace.

Teri
58 yrs old female
MSS KRAS mutation G12V
adenocarcinoma sigmoid colon dx 11-14
sigmoidectomy 11-14
Stage 3A
3 out of 20 lymph nodes involved
started FolFox 1-27-15
11 rounds FOLFOX last one 6-30-2015
7-29-2015 PET clear
5-14-2016 CT 2 nodules one in each lung
Confirmed pulmonary metastasis stage 4
FOLFIRi + Avistin started 8-16 11 rounds complete 12-16
CT 12-16 nodules shrunk chemo break wait and see :?
CT growth
VATS l lung 4 10 17
VATS r lung 4 24 17
CT 2 nodules r up and l low :(

Danieljt
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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby Danieljt » Tue Feb 14, 2017 7:46 pm

It's so tragic when we lose someone we love. Wrap yourself around his love for you and find comfort.
Jackie
70 male stage 3b cc
Dx 5/9/14
Resection 7/1/14
dx 9/14
65 yr wife DLCl
Sct 3/21/19 Ned last 8 mo.

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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby fordodo » Tue Feb 14, 2017 7:51 pm

My heart breaks for you. So young. Healing sent to you in prayer.
cos

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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby fumaros » Tue Feb 14, 2017 7:52 pm

I am so sorry for your loss.
Diagnosed 4/8/16, age 29
Colectomy 4/20/16
Stage III, T4bN1 Tumor 7x6.5x2. Muscinous Adenocarcinoma with SRC features
2/16 lymph nodes
Stage IV, Peri mets 5/2019
CEA 4/14/16 - 16.8
CEA 6/2/16 - 1.9
CEA 6/17/16 - 0.87, 7/16 - 1.33, 12/16 - 1.14, 4/17 - 0.6, 7/17 - 0.5, 10/17 - 0.9, 3/19 -5.8, 4/19 -10
FOLFOX began 6/24/16 - 11/25/16, FOLFIRI - 5/10/19
10 round FOLFOX, 2 round 5-FU & Leucovorin, 1 round FOLFIRI
MRI & CT 8/16 - NED, CT 12/16 - 10/17 - NED

TXLiz
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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby TXLiz » Tue Feb 14, 2017 10:51 pm

I am sorry that you lost your husband to this disease. I know your children must be devastated.

I must tell you though, I know someone with such great love and faith for God is surely in Heaven beyond earthly pain and sadness.

Prayers for you and your family.
Vomiting and blockage 9/19/16 46 y F
R hemi colectomy 9/20/16
Stage 3 B CRC, located in cecum
3 out of 16 lymph nodes positive
perineural invasion/lymphovascular invasion
infiltrating, mod differentiated adenocarcinoma with a mucinous component
separate tumor nodules present in pericolonic adipose tissue
MSI-high
Baseline PET scan clear 9/16 CEA 0.5
FOLFOX 10/16- 3/17
April 16th, CT scan clear. CEA 1.1
Lynch "inconclusive"
Colonoscopy 10/5/2017 clear

michelle c
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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby michelle c » Wed Feb 15, 2017 7:07 am

I am so very sorry to hear that your husband passed away. My deepest sympathy to you and all his loved ones. May you find comfort knowing that he is at peace and with the Lord. My thoughts and prayers are with you xx ❤️
May 25 2009 Dx with CC (sigmoid colon) 2 days after my 44th b'day
CEA prior to surgery 4.7
Jun 3 2009 LAR - Stage III 3/10 lymph nodes
Jul 6 - Dec 10 2009 - 12 cycles FOLFIRI
Genetic testing - inconclusive for Lynch
Jul 2012 port removed & hernia repair

plastikos
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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby plastikos » Wed Feb 15, 2017 11:44 am

My deepest sympathies on your loss.
St. IV Colon CA @ 37, male, Kras wild, MSI-high (2014)
11/2014 Right Hemicolectomy + Liver Resection
12/2014 - 6/2015 FOLFOX + Cetuximab
10/2015 - Recurrence liver
Liver resection 10/2015
FOLFIRI 11/2015 - 5/2016
Recurrence liver, nodes 11/2016
Pembrolizumab started 12/2016 -> pseudoprogression(?) -> biliary obstruction -> biliary stenting
Chemo 4x: most mets inactive and smaller on PET-CT
March 2017 - Back on Pembrolizumab again
Sept 2017 - SIRT - > NED
2019 NED

Yelin
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Re: My husband Andy has joined the Lord Jan 23rd

Postby Yelin » Wed Feb 15, 2017 3:56 pm

I am so sorry to hear that, RIP Andy


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