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I am very sorry for your loss.

Rons Wife,

My prayers are with you in this difficult time

Love Piyagarn

Maia wrote:My sincere condolences, ronswife. You have been such an advocate for him; that is great part of the love you shared... may your life be full of all the goodness you both have shared, soon. And just feel what you need to feel, right now... one day after the other, right now.
Sending strength and love your way.

Thanks SO much Maia!! I really appreciate this comment. But it seems now it was all for NAUGHT!

I know. But you said it well... "it seems now...". And it's OK. You, right now, feel what you feel. Words feel quite hollow during acute suffering. Just... (((hug))) : )

Thanks again!!

ronswife wrote:
But it seems now it was all for NAUGHT!

I hope you don't think this presumptuous of me, but from the perspective of the cared for (and not the caregiver), however it may now seem, please believe me when I tell you that none of it was for naught.

Jim

I am so very sorry for your loss. You supported him every step of his journey. I will pray for you as I know your pain is so great. Stay in touch.

Please accept my condolences, I'm so sorry. Be aware that most states have malpractice statutes of limitations around two years. So if you are serious about a lawsuit, check it for your state and do not delay. It's the worst possible time to do it while grieving for your loss, but the law is the law and it's stacked in favor of doctors.

JDMNYC wrote:

ronswife wrote:
But it seems now it was all for NAUGHT!

I hope you don't think this presumptuous of me, but from the perspective of the cared for (and not the caregiver), however it may now seem, please believe me when I tell you that none of it was for naught.

Jim

Ron'swife, I have to appreciate Jim's comment b/c I agree. I was a caregiver for my DM, DH. They know & appreciate what we do for them as caregivers, advocates...which is what we needed to do @ the time. In case you aren't aware, we have a thread for Loved Ones Left Behind:
viewtopic.php?f=1&t=46183&p=418107&hilit=loved+ones+left+behind#p418107

I hope reading/posting in this thread may bring you some small bit of comfort. It's really rough, I know.

Best Wishes
BS

I am so sorry. Sending you love and keeping you in my prayers.