MaShawas wrote::oops: My husbands oncologist just told my husband bluntly that his situation won't get better. The sooner he accepts it the better. He has tube in his nose because his bowel is obstructed. He has rectal cancer stage 4. He said he will still try Chemo but he has less than a month to live. I know that may be true but the way he said it. ... Argggghhhhh, my poor husband was left reeling and I had to comfort him. He is only 37 years old. I am sooo devastated and feel so alone. Why us???? I prayed to God to intervene but the situation is getting worse. What of my 3 beautiful little girls? ??? This is very hard for me to accept.
MaShawas wrote::oops: My husbands oncologist just told my husband bluntly that his situation won't get better. The sooner he accepts it the better. He has tube in his nose because his bowel is obstructed. He has rectal cancer stage 4. He said he will still try Chemo but he has less than a month to live. I know that may be true but the way he said it. ... Argggghhhhh, my poor husband was left reeling and I had to comfort him. He is only 37 years old. I am sooo devastated and feel so alone. Why us???? I prayed to God to intervene but the situation is getting worse. What of my 3 beautiful little girls? ??? This is very hard for me to accept.
Marylandmaniac wrote:MaShawas wrote::oops: My husbands oncologist just told my husband bluntly that his situation won't get better. The sooner he accepts it the better. He has tube in his nose because his bowel is obstructed. He has rectal cancer stage 4. He said he will still try Chemo but he has less than a month to live. I know that may be true but the way he said it. ... Argggghhhhh, my poor husband was left reeling and I had to comfort him. He is only 37 years old. I am sooo devastated and feel so alone. Why us???? I prayed to God to intervene but the situation is getting worse. What of my 3 beautiful little girls? ??? This is very hard for me to accept.
I will pray for you and your husband. Like others have said get a second opinion asap. I had a TERRIBLE surgeon at first and I left right away. Found a GREAT colorectal surgeon who is so much better plus has a better bed side manner. Who the heck is this Dr to tell your husband that?? He is not God and he does not have a crystal ball. There is a woman on here who was told she had 6 months to live and she said she was determined to live 6 months and day just to spite that doctor, lol Love that Well she just celebrated 12 years NED! Have faith, get second opinion and take care of your babies. Also look to see if any clinical trials are around you that may offer hope.
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