My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

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horizon
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My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby horizon » Sat May 21, 2016 8:08 pm

I didn't know being dumped could feel good. :shock: I usually do pretty well keeping scanxiety under control until about three days before. As in the past when I got the good news I honestly couldn't even feel happy. I just wanted to crumple on the floor from exhaustion. It's finally starting to sink in though. Five years ago I woke up from a colonoscopy and was told I had stage 3 colon cancer. I didn't know what any of that meant but I knew my life would never be the same. I'm incredibly fortunate in that everything I could do before this nightmare I can still do now. I still think about cancer every day but I can go long periods without thinking about it, which was unimaginable five years ago. Someday down the line this monster could come back and but for now I'm going to concentrate on having a great summer. If you're just starting out remember you never know what the future will hold for you!
I'm just a dude who still can't believe he had a resection and went through chemo (currently 13 years NED). Is this real life?

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby Cowgirl918 » Sat May 21, 2016 9:19 pm

So happy for you. Enjoy the summer and every day after!
HX Colon Polyps Villious and Tubillovillous
12/29/15 Colonoscopy/Endoscopy - Ascending Colon Mass- Hemicolectomy Scheduled
1/17/2016 Right Hemicolectomy Cancelled
1/25/2016 CT No evidence of other disease
2/12/2016 EMR-ascending colon mass 80%
8/12/2016 EMR #2 ascending colon mass curative
8/13/16 NED
7/26/2023 Neuroendocrine mass small bowel, two mesenteric lymph nodes
9/1/2023 Small bowel resection jejunum and lymph nodes removed mesentery

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby Thetoad » Sat May 21, 2016 9:42 pm

Great to read encouraging posts like this! Thank you. :lol:
Emergency extended rt hemi November 2013.
Complete blockage, small perforation.
Stage 2a.
T3N0M0
22 Lymph nodes clear.
No bag.

Yearly appts appts and 6 monthly CEA tests.
Incisional hernia repair, mesh Nov. 2014.
Cellulitus
CEA 1.4 on 28/7/17
27/5/17. Gallbladder removed, open.
Good consultation Feb. 2017
CEA 1.7 on 16/11/17 colonoscopy ok Jan. 2018 :)
Nurse pleased, March 2018. CEA 1.8. One more CEA test and hopefully last appt in November, 2018.
Prostate cancer, Gleason 7 (3+4) Sept. '18.

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby Bev G » Sat May 21, 2016 9:57 pm

What excellent news! So glad to read this. Have a great life!

Love,

Bev
58 yo Type1 DM 48 years
12/09 Stage IV 2/22 nodes + liver met, colon resec
3 tx FOLFIRI, liver resec 4/10
9/10 6 mos off chemo, Neg PET&CTC CEA nl
2/11 finished total 10 rounds chemo

9/13 ^17th clean PET/CT NED for now

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby Buckeye » Sat May 21, 2016 10:11 pm

Congratulations!!! Stay healthy and enjoy your life!! :D
Dx 10/20/15 stage 1 T1N0M0 1.3cmx1.1cmx1cm low grade ( well to moderately differentiated) Rectal cancer age 47
Loving Husband and father of two girls age 19 & 15 Sole income provider
CEA <0.5
CT, MRI and PET show no metastatic spread
LAR Laparoscopic TME 11/30/15 with Illo
Pathology clean no lymph node or vascular involvement. Confirmed Stage1
No chemo/rad cancer free now and forever.
Illo reversal 01/26/16

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby Travelgirl » Sat May 21, 2016 11:11 pm

God Bless
Your story brings hope others.
Travel Girl
53/F
DX-CC 12/19/15
Tumor location Cecum
Tumor Type -Adenocarcinoma arising background sessile serrated polyp high grade dysplasia
Tumor size 1.5 cm
TNM - T1, N0, M0
Stage 1
Baseline 12/15 CEA 2.4, 8/16 CEA 1.7,11/15 CEA 2.3
Surgical Margins Clear
Lynch - Neg
Primary Surgery 1/11/16 LAR right colon and portion of ileum right hemicolectomy
1/4 follicular lymphoma- Wait n Watch (found in CT scan for Colon cancer) a 2 for 1 special.
8/16/16 NED for Colon/Lymphoma nodes have shrunk on their own.

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby stu » Sun May 22, 2016 2:46 am

Hi.
Well done. Wishing you many great days going forward.
Stu
supporter to my mum who lives a great life despite a difficult diagnosis
stage4 2009 significant spread to liver
2010 colon /liver resection
chemo following recurrence
73% of liver removed
enjoying life treatment free
2016 lung resection
Oct 2017 nice clear scan . Two lung nodules disappeared
Oct 2018. Another clear scan .

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby BrownBagger » Sun May 22, 2016 7:24 am

Congratulations!

Love to make these milestones.
Eric, 58
Dx: 3/09, Stage 4 RC
Recurrences: (ongoing, lung, bronchial cavity, ribs)
Major Ops: 6/ RFA: 3 /bronchoscopies: 8
Pelvic radiation: 5 wks. Bronchial radiation—brachytheray: 3 treatments
Chemo Rounds (career):136
Current Chemo Cocktail: Xeloda & Erbitux & Irinotecan biweekly
Current Cocktail; On the Wagon (mostly)
Bicycle miles post-dx 10,477
Motto: Live your life like it's going to be a long one, because it just might, and then you'll be glad you did.

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby Bob_Weiss » Sun May 22, 2016 8:54 am

After 5 years NED, my oncologist suggested that if I was still interested in periodic follow-ups then I should come in every 9 months. I decided that an occasional visit to my neighborhood primary care doctor was sufficient. After my last colonoscopy, the gastroenterologist said I should telephone him after 5 years to determine if another exam would be advisable. I'm glad to be free of frequent doctor visits, but I sometimes feel nostalgic about all the medical staff I no longer visit regularly.
Stage 3 R/C -1 node+ ( 7/09)
5 wks radiation, 2 wks chemo: 5FU (8-9/09)
Rectal surgery: tumor removal (11/09)
10 rounds Xeloda: 3000mg/daily 1 wk on/1 wk off (1/10-6/10)
Supplements: Aspirin, Calcium, Vit. D3
03/27/17: 7+ yrs. since surgery--still NED

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby NoFear32 » Sun May 22, 2016 8:58 am

Congrats!!!! I'm one year out with clean scans and everything and can't wait to reach the 5 year mark and get dumped too!

I know what you mean about scanxiety and thinking about cancer all the time, so I'm glad to hear that it sounds like those worries eventually get better :D

Enjoy yourself!!!
32 yo,Wife & Mom, ages 9 & 3
4/17/15: Colonoscopy = 6cm in sigmoid + 6 polyps
4/24/15: Colectomy (no illeo)
4/27/15: Diagnosed Stage 3b CC, 2/55 lymph nodes
May2015: Genetic testing, no Lynch, FAP, Gardners
6/1/15: Started FOLFOX - BAD reaction to 5FU, switched rounds 3-8 to combo of XELODA + OXI via IV.
9/24/15: Round 8 and done with chemo!
Nov2015: First CT scan, X-rays, blood = NED
Jan2016: Bloodwork = NED
Next up: Colonoscopy & Endoscopy, more CT scans, etc

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby DarknessEmbraced » Sun May 22, 2016 9:51 am

Very happy for you! :D Have a wonderful summer!*hugs*
Diagnosed 10/28/14, age 36
Colon Resection 11/20/14, LAR (no illeo)
Stage 2a colon cancer, T3NOMO
Lymph-vascular invasion undetermined
0/22 lymph nodes
No chemo, no radiation
Clear Colonoscopy 04/29/15
NED 10/20/15
Ischemic Colitis 01/21/16
NED 11/10/16
CT Scan moved up due to high CEA 08/21/17
NED 09/25/17
NED 12/21/18
Clear colonoscopy 09/23/19
Clear 5 year scans 11/21/19- Considered cured! :)

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby HopeForJesse » Sun May 22, 2016 10:17 am

Congrats! amen! And may your status be contagious for all on here!!!!
DH DX 01/16 49 YO inop RC stage IV liver mets
MSS TP53 APC,BRCA2
12/15 CEA 241, FOLFOX to 11/16
LAR/ileo 5/16 Clear margins 1/29 nodes
HAI, reversal, liver resections7/16
FUDR 8/16 -NED 3 mos
Rising CEA 3/17 Xeloda, 5/17 -12/17 Erbitux & Iri stable but lung/lymph mets CEA 2.7
5/18 5 days SBRT radiation to sternum 10/22/18 surgery to remove zyphoid process met
6/11/19 5FU added to cetuximab and irinotecan CEA 16
Ephesians 3:20 Our God is able to do immeasurably more than we can ask or imagine!

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby NedPlease » Sun May 22, 2016 10:26 am

Alright, alright!!
F-54- St 4- Ascend Colon, 2 Liver mets, Poorly dif, Mutant
6/10- Folfox
9/10- R Liver Resect/Colon/Gall/Appendix
11/10-3/11- Folfox
11/11- R Lung, 1 met, VATS
3/12- 9/12- Xeloda
2/12- 6/18 Clear Scans
6/19- first time no scan
Today- NED

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby AppleTree » Mon May 23, 2016 1:59 pm

Now that sounds like a happy break up. Congratulations!
Diag Feb 5, 2016 Age 45
3 cm tumor 5 cm from verge
Radiation + Xeloda pills - 3000mg 5x week
3/14 - 4/16 - 25 sessions
Shrank just over 50% L nodes 0/13
Remove rectum with temp Ileo 6/17
Reversal 7/20 due to infection
Acute hepatitis August. Chemo cancelled
June to September 2016 - 58 days in hospital

2017
6/16, MRI shadow in lung
Pet - 6.6mm Met in Upper R lobe
7/30 VAT surgery Mass General/Boston
8/24 port
8/30 - 4/28 Folfox. 12 rounds
2018
June CT shows new lung Mets.
July/Oct PETs...CLEAR!

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Re: My oncologist dumped me. Officially 5 years NED!

Postby horizon » Mon May 23, 2016 9:30 pm

Thanks everyone! :)

Bob_Weiss wrote:I'm glad to be free of frequent doctor visits, but I sometimes feel nostalgic about all the medical staff I no longer visit regularly.


Yeah that is a strange thing. I will miss some of my caregivers.

NoFear32 wrote:Congrats!!!! I'm one year out with clean scans and everything and can't wait to reach the 5 year mark and get dumped too!

I know what you mean about scanxiety and thinking about cancer all the time, so I'm glad to hear that it sounds like those worries eventually get better :D


It consumed my thoughts constantly for a long time. I hope four years from now you're making a similar post.
I'm just a dude who still can't believe he had a resection and went through chemo (currently 13 years NED). Is this real life?


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