surfingon wrote:Dear Lund,
I wrote this blog entry precisely for patients like you with questions like this: https://sheddinglightonthecancerjourney.wordpress.com/2010/01/24/how-to-choose-a-really-good-hospice-part-ii/
It is really important to understand that not all hospices are the same. If you don't feel comfortable with the one you choose, it is likely that there may be others to choose from in your area. And if there is a staff member that you don't feel comfortable with, you certainly have the right to ask for someone else. Everything about the hospice you choose should be about you and your own unique circumstances and needs.
Hope this is helpful. I'd be happy to answer any other questions you might have.
Blessings on this journey,
Rachel[/u]
Lund5505 wrote:
Hospice just plain scares me. The idea of strangers coming into my house and telling what to do and meddling in our family relationships freaks me out. I have a very supportive husband and two really awesome sons and three small grandchildren. But I'm worried that as this progresses I will say or do something that will change their memory of me forever. I've heard you just go kind of crazy when your liver starts to fail.
I just wish I could skip this last step.
Sorry for ranting but I'm really freaking out over this. I'm sure I did more chemo than what was prudent just avoid the whole hospice thing. Fyi, my mom died the night before the were going to dump her in hospice. That may be factoring into my fear factor.
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