gman3 wrote:Thank you for your response I have not really talk to an oncologist yet but I thought if they removed the lymph the cancer was gone they said that it had not spread anywhere.
Of course you'll understand that my advice is comparatively worthless -- just some guy you met on the net. Trust your doctors.
A big problem with treating cancer is telling whether you have it. You can perfectly well have cancer cells in your body that cannot be detected directly, but can grow and spread until they become life threatening. It's important to treat cancer early, so sometimes doctors have to go by the odds. Even if it's possible you have no cancer, if there is a significant chance you do, your best bet may be to have chemotherapy. If you wait for therapy until you are sure that you do have it, it may be too late to keep it from killing you.
The importance of finding cancer in one of the lymph nodes they took out of you is that it is evidence there are cancer cells in your lymphatic system, and from there the cancer can spread to other parts of your body. So it's not the cancer in that one lymph node that you have to worry about, but the cancer cells in your lymphatic system which have not been detected directly, but whose presence is inferred.
If you want to quantify your risk, your oncologist can probably supply you some figures about how likely it is you will survive the next 5 years cancer free if you do not have chemotherapy versus the likelihood of surviving if you do have chemotherapy. Then you can decide if you want to roll the dice. My intuition is that you will find that your chances are poor without chemotherapy.