All of a sudden, two years after diagnosis I am feeling lost. Two days ago out of nowhere I flew into a rage over nothing and had to leave the house to get fresh air and space. I haven't been angry over cancer before, just down. This is new for me and I don't like how it feels or who I am angry. I feel like I'm losing my precious time left being angry and don't want to be remembered that way- pushing everyone away and being crabby.
I do not have my recent scan and blood results yet and maybe that is weighing on me, but getting results isn't anything new. I'm not receiving any counselling and maybe I could benefit from that but I'm not a huge fan of the social worker at my cancer centre and that's about the only free counselling around here.
I don't know what my anger is directed at or stems from. I do know I can't spend another year doing nothing like this past year. I can't do the work I used to do, and there's no incentive to work part time because I'll lose my mortgage coverage that I only have for another year and I can't pay the mortgage on part time work. I'm not ready to jump back into a 35 hour work week. I looked into fitness memberships with the city and even with the 35% reduction in fee for having a disability it's still expensive. I feel angry at the loss of control I have over the change in life cancer has caused me. I'm silently angry and fuming over others I see online moving on, travelling, career advancements, both survivors and non-survivors. I was on such a good path before, doing good things and going places. Now...nothing. Waiting, and I don't know what I'm waiting for.
Thanks for letting me vent.