Postby JudeD59 » Thu Jan 28, 2016 4:10 pm
I had nightmare problems with leaking after my ileostomy. The first question I'll ask is if your husband's stoma sticks out from his abdomen or is almost flush with his skin. And when the bag is off, have you ever noticed any output coming from the side of the stoma instead of just from the top? If the stoma doesn't protrude enough or has a small second opening in the side (as mine did) he will need to use a convex wafer that pushes the stoma out and above the wafer. Otherwise, the output is able to sneak under the wafer and leak out. You should be able to ask the stoma nurse to give you a convex bag to try.
There are wipes you can buy that are specifically for ostomies that remove any oil, soap, feces, adhesive, etc. from the area before you apply a new wafer. I use Safe and Simple No Sting wipes at every bag change. I then let the area dry completely before putting the wafer on. If the leak is always coming from the same spot, you can ask the nurses to put a piece of HY tape or other strong waterproof tape across that part of the wafer to hold it down more securely and prevent feces from reaching the incision. I had to do this after my bag leaked into my open incision several times.
Another thing I've found that can cause leaks is not emptying the bag often enough. You said he's having high output right now. When the bag fills up more than halfway and gets heavy, it can pull at the wafer and loosen its grip on the skin. I try to empty mine when it is about a third full because of all the problems I've had. And when it's really full and I'm walking to the bathroom, I put a hand over it to give it some support so there is less pulling on my skin.
Another option is called stoma powder. It's a light, talc-like powder that I brush on with a makeup brush before putting the wafer on. It has to be a light coating, almost see-through, but that should absorb any oil left on your husband's skin. The nurses should have that on hand for you to try, too.
I don't know what brand of bag your hospital provides, but mine provided Coloplast and it was a nightmare for me. Even after I got my problems resolved, I tried Coloplast again and the problems started back up. I now use Convatec Esteem Synergy two piece bags. The wafer is more of an almost wax-like material that molds to your skin as it warms. The center hole also turtlenecks around the bottom of the stoma as your body heat warms it and that also prevents leaks.
It's really a game of trial and error at first to see which products work for you. And all the products and suggestions can be overwhelming. Don't let the nurses change his bag unless it has leaked. Changing it too often can cause skin irritation, which causes the skin to weep, which causes the wafer to come loose, and more leaks. If the bag has leaked, it needs to be changed quickly to prevent the stomach acids from irritating the skin, but don't let nurses change it repeatedly just to check on it or to demonstrate to you how to do it. Mine was changed about five times in the first week for no good reason and I ended up with bloody patches from the irritation. Also, when it is removed, always push the skin away from the bag gently with your fingers instead of pulling the bag away from the skin.
It will get better, I promise, and this is coming from someone who had major problems in the beginning. There are lots of people on this board who are here to help.
Judy
56 yrs old, wife, mother to 4 daughters
RC Stage II T3N0M0 DX April 2, 2015
6 cm. mid-rectum-CEA 121
Xeloda and radiation finished 06/15/15- CEA 242
CEA right before surgery 81
LAR performed 8/12/15 Temporary ileostomy
CEA 10-21-15 1.6
PET scan 11-4-15 All clear
Port installed 11/11/15
Folfox started 11/18/15
Folfox stopped due to bad reaction
Reversal 2/17/16
CEA 2/3/16 1.7
CEA 3/31/16 1.3
CT Scan 4/12/16 All Clear
Port removed 4/21/16
CEA 5/24/17 1.4