weisssoccermom wrote: He smoked like a fiend and even to the end, he was photographed with a cigarette in his mouth.
weisssoccermom wrote:It is easy to say he smoked like a fiend since he himself admitted it in interviews. Last night on the news, his 'rep' even said the same. As for the photographs of him with smoking, that again was something that this 'rep' indicated as well was a known fact. I'm not judging him....if he wanted to smoke...let him. Even if he DID have lung cancer that metastasized and he smoked after diagnosis, I don't fault him for that. I saw what it was like on this forum when a former member had VATS and continued to smoke....she was raked over the coals for it....told that she should quit, etc. Now, don't get me wrong, I think she should have quit but recognize that it isn't as easy as that.
weisssoccermom wrote:Sorry you feel it is judgmental because it wasn't meant to be. I was merely trying to point out that IF a person wants to smoke, etc. even if that person has or had cancer....it's not my decision whether or not he/she should or shouldn't. I don't smoke so can't possibly understand how difficult it is for people to smoke...even though I have heard it is. Just like some people (myself included) stress eat, I know that many people smoke when they are stressed. Why wouldn't someone be 'stressed' if they were facing an imminent death? My FIL had pancreatic cancer and was obviously dying from it...the docs could do nothing for him. He was a heavy drinker and although I don't drink, I didn't fault him for drinking after his diagnosis. Many family members kept trying to tell him to quit, thinking that stopping would somehow 'cure' him or stop the progression of his disease. Why should he stop? Would it prolong his life? NO. If drinking was able to dull the pain (both physical and emotional) for him, why not?
Bowie was very open and upfront about his smoking and he said he wished he had never started and/or that he was able to quit. He said it, not me. How is that judgmental? It was HIS life and he had every right (just as we all do) to live it whatever way he wanted. As long as he wasn't promoting the idea of smoking...somehow saying it was perfectly acceptable, etc., it was his decision what he wanted to do/not to do.
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