I don't know if it's just me or what

[Nik Colon]

I need to stop posting things, seems I keep saying the wrong thing. Sorry, I need to leave for a bit, those who know me can write me on fb if you want, hahaha, yep fb since I seem to be turning this into it anyway. Sorry for ruining the FUN here!

WARNING...DO NOT CHAT OR JOKE HERE OR PEOPLE WILL THINK YOU ARE TURNING IT INTO FB!

Wish you all well

[NZJay]

Without meaning any disrespect, I think you just need to chill and stop overthinking shit. You haven't done anything wrong!! And If anyone thinks you have, they're just uptight and not worth worrying about. Noone wants you to leave

[justin case]

Without meaning any disrespect, I think you just need to chill and stop overthinking shit. You haven't done anything wrong!! And If anyone thinks you have, they're just uptight and not worth worrying about. Noone wants you to leave

Who's Noone, I'll kick his butt!

[canadiandaughter]

I agree, you are over reacting! The facebook comment was not at all mean. I think, if I got it right, she just meant that fb is more a chatty social place where as this is a information place. I dont think it was meant to be taken personally, so no worries, stick around and keep posting! You are worrying too much lately, hell I even saw you apologize for someone else!! I have never found your posts mean or nasty and if they are taken the wrong way, you shouldnt worry about it. THat sadly is the problem with not being able to hear sarcasm or tone when writing. Its similar to texting, sometimes things get taken the wrong way and the shit hits the fan!! Besides, you can't leave!! Frenchie needs your comments on his posts now that skypup has been gone for awhile.

[weisssoccermom]

Who is upset? As a mod, I don't think you've posted anything that's offensive, rude or anything else like that. Granted, I don't read every post but still......what's happening that you think made someone upset?

[justin case]

Without meaning any disrespect, I think you just need to chill and stop overthinking shit. You haven't done anything wrong!! And If anyone thinks you have, they're just uptight and not worth worrying about. Noone wants you to leave

Who's Noone, I'll kick his butt!

Let me make this more clear, No one wants you to leave.
Bro Nut

[MamaN]

Nik ,
no one wants you to leave , if it wasn't for this place we would have never met ! Plus I would not have met all the other wonderful people here that make this group special !

[JudeD59]

I read through all the controversial threads and I wasn't offended by anything you said nor did I think you said anything out of line. You just seem more stressed or agitated than usual this week. I'm sorry for whatever is making you feel that way. I hope tomorrow is a better day for you and I really hope you stick around because I would miss talking to you. You have a lot to offer this board and this community.

Judy

[Nik Colon]

Thanks guys, maybe I am just more emotional, but I still do feel others comments were unneeded and it hurts. I don't want to feel like I have to walk on eggshells. Lets see, making it sound like I'm trying to turn this into fb by being friendly and personal or ask a question, implying that by thanking people trying to acknowledge them and be respectful that I'm being rude by bumping up my posts, asking a q and giving my opinion im taking it personal, Etc. Yeah, it hurts. That is me, I like to be friendly, sorry if it pisses some people off. I loved this forum and now I dont know. If I can't be me, I just maybe shouldt be here anymore. It hurts as I have felt very close to many of you.

[CRguy]

I'll be coming here with "tough LOVE"
Less on the tough...... HEAVY on the LOVE

Take a break ma' homie

you are getting way over the top here

time to step back and get some REAL time support

I cannot be here for you, you need real life... real time folks

You do NOT need to keep apologizing for anything HERE !
You NEED to get some positive vibes happening in your own life.

WE WILL try to help, but if it is beyond US .... you NEED to get hands on personal support ....

Harmony sista'

CR

[Nik Colon]

Thanks CR, I honestly don't know what I need or how I feel right now. For some reason I just feel so angry and down lately and don't know what to do or where to turn. I just can't deal with the hurt right now.

I do have real life support from family and friends but of course none are in my shoes. Also, I don't want to burden them anymore then they are. They have to deal with it in their own way already.

[Nik Colon]

I'm not normally like this and I don't know how to turn it off right now.

[CRguy]

THEN step outside the box and get professional help. I would not be able to confide inside MY family either.
I have consulted counsellors, many times.

DO IT ...... if that is what you need DO IT !

If this Journey was easy ... ANYONE could do it

IT AIN'T ...... so only the strong CAN do it ...
YOU are here because you ARE strong

Get what you NEED to move on and survive

THAT is the WORD

Harmony
CR

[Lee]

My input, PLEASE DON'T LEAVE!! You are an asset here. You have always been respective of other people"s opinions and are always the 1st person to welcome a newbie. Please do not think of leaving any time soon.

Hang around a bit longer please.

Lee

[bitchslapped]

Ritz, many of us take periodic breaks from here due to the fluidity of life. No one suggested to you that your responses were an attempt to bump up your posts. One person did say that she felt it might come across that way if she did it & was wondering if she was perceived as rude by not doing so. I thought that was a thoughtful perspective & appreciated the point of view. If we can't speak our opinion, then we are the ones walking on eggshells here, not you.
I don't recall anyone directly accusing you of trying to turn CT into FB. There have been general references in your post & others, I'm sure.

Probably most of us have made an unwarranted comment. It's a public forum & people come here for support & get some things off their chest. And, yes, people get offended
I agree w/CR & think I suggested previously on one of your threads, that family & friends are not enough direct support & you've admitted to holding back so as not to burden them. It's apparent that you are escalating as of late & out of concern, these suggestions are made.
We have a Sticky Thread of support groups across the country. Won't you reach out? Right now we are not helping you; don't seem to be what you need. We are apparently aggravating your situation & that doesn't make us feel good either.
Please reach out locally for a cancer support group to augment this one & get or give some real hugs.


Think on it...

Best Wishes + Cyber Hugs
bitchslapped