Aloha sweet friends... I wanted to ask those of you who have gone down this road of end of life... What were the things that helped your loved one ... It's so horrible to watch my hubby suffer and not be able to do anything ... He is not complaining a tiny bit but I know inside he is so worried to leave us behind ... His body is so weak and he is so uncomfortable but still conscious and understands everything ... He told me today I just want to get a tiny bit better so I can spend some time with u guys ... How can I make him feel better ?
His billirubin is up to 16 and bile duct is blocked ... Nothing can be done for that just let it be... His feet are all swollen ... His abdomen is swollen so he says he feels too full to eat so he only has couple of bites a day...
This is how we will go home with hospice ... So very worried about it... That he won't have the 24/7 medical personnel around even tho just a phone call away ...
What can I do to make this whole experience for him less painful ... Fill it with good memories ... Give him peace... Make him feel better ? What are the things that help when your family was going thru this
Besides small massages, playing music, room oil essences... What did you do to make your loved one feel better? What helped your family?
Thanks a bunch
Love and hugs