Postby kiwiinoz » Wed Jun 03, 2015 6:32 pm
Hi Cherie
You have always said you want to be around for your family as long as you can, and HIPEC offers an admittedly tough road, but a good road for that. I would give it serious thought and if it works for you then do it.
In regards to your Husband, I think you have had a lot of advice bagging him. Without knowing him, and your personal situaiton can I offer a different view? Maybe you having cancer scared him shitless, made him think about life and what is important to him and perhaps he just arrived at the same conclusion as you which is that he wants you as long as he possibly can and that money is necessary but almost somewhat irrelevant as working takes you away from him. Maybe it is not the money in the new job but the lower level of responsibility, less stress and less time, meaning he can spend more time and focus on you. Perhaps, just perhaps, this is his way of loving you and trying to support you more.
Again, don't know you but reading your posts this is what I get from his actions.
Good luck with your decision and keep warm. Looked at temps in my home town Hamilton and it was -2 overnight.....Rotorua must be colder than that huh?
Kiwi
Stage IV Rectal Cancer (39 Year old male at dx)
pT3N0M1 (wish that was M0)
Diagnosed 05 Dec 2012
LAR 05 Jan 2013
VATS 27 Feb 2013
FOLOFX April 2013 - Sep 2013
Clear Scan 03 Dec 2013 - August 2020
Port Out 26 March 2015