Re: Memorial/wake?
Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 1:30 pm
The other week I wrote the speech I wanted to have read on my funeral memorial service ( I was that depressed! It's sick, hide the kitchen knifes , luckily yesterdsy my anti depressants were doubled by a new shrink, i so hope it helps) .
i'm not planning to go anywhere soon though.
However, we visited my father in law's grave over the weekend for the first time, he died while I was in hospital, 84 years old, on a hart attack, bless him, he had a beautiful long life and a nice way to go, no suffering.
He has a black granite stone, so boring! But then, the sober stuff suited him. i googled and found you can have a nice pile of rocks , even ones you find yourself. There's a small graveyard on the way to the swimming pool close to our house, so if I die young, put me there so I can keep an eye on things, when I die old, just burn my sorry ass and chuck the lot in the north sea
Oh, and there will be a party with lots of italian food from my favorite restaurant, nice wines and all kinds of colorfull flowers, kids table with games and stuff, young or old. . But preferably when all my friends are to old to eat pizza crust because of their fake teeth.. ( kids table will still be there for the demented ones)
Annemiek
i'm not planning to go anywhere soon though.
However, we visited my father in law's grave over the weekend for the first time, he died while I was in hospital, 84 years old, on a hart attack, bless him, he had a beautiful long life and a nice way to go, no suffering.
He has a black granite stone, so boring! But then, the sober stuff suited him. i googled and found you can have a nice pile of rocks , even ones you find yourself. There's a small graveyard on the way to the swimming pool close to our house, so if I die young, put me there so I can keep an eye on things, when I die old, just burn my sorry ass and chuck the lot in the north sea
Oh, and there will be a party with lots of italian food from my favorite restaurant, nice wines and all kinds of colorfull flowers, kids table with games and stuff, young or old. . But preferably when all my friends are to old to eat pizza crust because of their fake teeth.. ( kids table will still be there for the demented ones)
Annemiek