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MamaN
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OT had rough week

Postby MamaN » Sat Apr 18, 2015 8:47 pm

Done
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Dx@45 stage t3 n1b m unknown IIIB
Resected in 8/2010 rectosigmoid
5.5 tumor with 3 /26 lymph nodes
Lymph vascular invasion
Folfox sept 2010 to feb 2011
10 tx only stopped due to low wbc

momof3
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby momof3 » Sat Apr 18, 2015 9:09 pm

Did you slip in that your husband left you in the middle of all this? Or is that a typo? Either way, I'm sorry you are having a tough time. I hope the surgery goes well and the recovery is easier than expected.
Good luck!
Husband was 46 when diagnosed stage 4 aug 2012
folfox and avastin ... then surgery april 2013
mets only to paraaortic nodes
Mets to femurs and spine found Nov 2013

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MamaN
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby MamaN » Sat Apr 18, 2015 9:19 pm

Done
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Dx@45 stage t3 n1b m unknown IIIB
Resected in 8/2010 rectosigmoid
5.5 tumor with 3 /26 lymph nodes
Lymph vascular invasion
Folfox sept 2010 to feb 2011
10 tx only stopped due to low wbc

peanut_8
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby peanut_8 » Sat Apr 18, 2015 9:21 pm

Sorry you had a rough week, Ronni. I hope the surgery and recovery goes well.
peanut
female, diagnosed Jan 14, RC stage 2a, age 56
MSS
April 14, 28 chemo/rad with Xeloda
June 14 adjuvant Xeloda 6 rounds
currently NED

momof3
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby momof3 » Sat Apr 18, 2015 9:29 pm

Ugh..can we send him nasty emails? I know it's hard but I have a feeling you will be better off without him.

My mom passed away in the fall...and I also have a 15 yr old (along with a 17 yr old and a 3 yr old !) so I can understand why you are feeling overwhelmed. I hope you have some other support...friends, siblings, etc. That can help out.

Hang in there.
Husband was 46 when diagnosed stage 4 aug 2012
folfox and avastin ... then surgery april 2013
mets only to paraaortic nodes
Mets to femurs and spine found Nov 2013

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MamaN
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby MamaN » Sat Apr 18, 2015 9:36 pm

Done
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Dx@45 stage t3 n1b m unknown IIIB
Resected in 8/2010 rectosigmoid
5.5 tumor with 3 /26 lymph nodes
Lymph vascular invasion
Folfox sept 2010 to feb 2011
10 tx only stopped due to low wbc

cathy123
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby cathy123 » Sat Apr 18, 2015 9:52 pm

I am so sorry. That is way too much to be dealing with at once. Be I guess one step at a time - get thru surgery and then deal with everything else. And lean on those friends and neighbors because you will need some help.
Cathy

Diagnosed 10/14 low rectal cancer age 43
Clinical T2NXMX
Radiation/xeloda 12/14-1/15
LAR with temp Ileo 3/15
pT2N0M0, lymphatic invasion 0/37 nodes
4 xelox, 1 xeloda only
Reversal 9/15
Mom to 9&11 year olds

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MamaN
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby MamaN » Sat Apr 18, 2015 9:55 pm

Thank you
Peanut and cathy123
Dx@45 stage t3 n1b m unknown IIIB
Resected in 8/2010 rectosigmoid
5.5 tumor with 3 /26 lymph nodes
Lymph vascular invasion
Folfox sept 2010 to feb 2011
10 tx only stopped due to low wbc

DarknessEmbraced
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby DarknessEmbraced » Sat Apr 18, 2015 10:03 pm

I'm so sorry Maman!*hugs* I'm sorry you're going through all of this! I hope your surgery and recovery go well! I also hope that friends and neighbors will be able to help you!*hugs*
Diagnosed 10/28/14, age 36
Colon Resection 11/20/14, LAR (no illeo)
Stage 2a colon cancer, T3NOMO
Lymph-vascular invasion undetermined
0/22 lymph nodes
No chemo, no radiation
Clear Colonoscopy 04/29/15
NED 10/20/15
Ischemic Colitis 01/21/16
NED 11/10/16
CT Scan moved up due to high CEA 08/21/17
NED 09/25/17
NED 12/21/18
Clear colonoscopy 09/23/19
Clear 5 year scans 11/21/19- Considered cured! :)

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rwightman
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby rwightman » Sat Apr 18, 2015 10:37 pm

I am so sorry! That really stinks. If you happen to live in AZ I would be happy to help you.
10/9/14 DX Age 50 - MSS
10/23/14 - Colon Resection - Stage II - 0/15 lympth nodes
12/30/14 - Stage IV - 1 liver met 2cc - Liver Resection - No lymph nodes and margins clear
3/10/15 - peri mets
3/15 - Folfox with Avastin - 7 tx
7/15 - HIPEC - 2 peri mets
10/14 - resection of abdominal met
11/12 - 5FU

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Frenchie's Wife
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby Frenchie's Wife » Sat Apr 18, 2015 10:54 pm

Mana N,
You could give us his e mail in a PM. We can all send him a nasty.
He will even get some from Canada !!
Come on, Sugar, get even with him now !!
Why not F^*K HIM right up the yang yang and let us tell him what we
Think of him !
He is ditching you at the worst possable time in your life.
Give him a reality check from us.!!
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Caregiver to DH 59 yr, male, Stage IV at Dx
Dx Sept 2009
Liver,bladder mets, 5 surgeries
Lots of chemo
Inoperable lung mets nov 2013
Stopped all treatments in February 2014 due to QOL issues
I am in God's hands now !!
Feb 2015 - too many new mets to count !
At peace July 9, 2017

Danieljt
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby Danieljt » Sat Apr 18, 2015 11:03 pm

I have a friend who had breast cancer. He husband wanted a divorce but the judge wouldn't grant it because she would lose his insurance. Get a good lawyer and stick it to him.
Good luck on your hip surgery, wish it could be of more help.
Jackie
70 male stage 3b cc
Dx 5/9/14
Resection 7/1/14
dx 9/14
65 yr wife DLCl
Sct 3/21/19 Ned last 8 mo.

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MamaN
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby MamaN » Sat Apr 18, 2015 11:16 pm

Frenchie wrote:Mana N,
You could give us his e mail in a PM. We can all send him a nasty.
How will even get some from Canada !!
Come on, Sugar, get even with him now !!
Why not F^*K HIM
He is ditching you at the worst possable time in your life.
Give him a reality check from us.!!


Thank you you don't even want to know what I'd like to do but I'm glad your on the same page as me! Frenchie!
Dx@45 stage t3 n1b m unknown IIIB
Resected in 8/2010 rectosigmoid
5.5 tumor with 3 /26 lymph nodes
Lymph vascular invasion
Folfox sept 2010 to feb 2011
10 tx only stopped due to low wbc

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MamaN
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby MamaN » Sat Apr 18, 2015 11:26 pm

Done
Last edited by MamaN on Sat Jun 13, 2015 9:03 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Dx@45 stage t3 n1b m unknown IIIB
Resected in 8/2010 rectosigmoid
5.5 tumor with 3 /26 lymph nodes
Lymph vascular invasion
Folfox sept 2010 to feb 2011
10 tx only stopped due to low wbc

Delinda2
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Re: OT had rough week

Postby Delinda2 » Sat Apr 18, 2015 11:46 pm

I'm so sorry you have to go through this Sweetie. How I wish we were neighbors so you would have some help after the surgery. This guy must be a jerk to give up a woman as bright, beautiful, and loving as you. You let us know if he crosses the line. He'll have the whole Colon Club after him - with REAL clubs. Hang in there. XXOXO, Delinda
63 yrs,wife & mom
4/14 dx colon cancer,3C,9/22 nodes
Lymphatic,venous,&perineural invasion
<1cm margin,poorly differentiated
6/14 colostomy take down
7/14 FOLFOX w/9 Nulasta shots
2/16 dx new primary of sigmoid colon
6/16 surgery-rescection on sigmoid, total hysterectomy, temp ileo, stage 4
"I AM the storm."


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