Postby nashvegas79 » Wed Apr 08, 2015 12:58 am
Hey Chad, and hey everybody else too...
My name is Peter, and I am fairly new to this forum as well. I'm 35, but was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer when I was 29, so I'm not really new to the "cancer club" in general. My first surgery back in '09 was a colon resection with a permanent descending colostomy, so I've been pretty active on a colostomy forum for the past few years. I had a liver resection a couple months after my colon surgery to remove the single met, with hopes of removing all the disease. My cea was normal and my ct's were clear for most of a year, but then my numbers went up and another met formed in my liver. I had another liver surgery to remove it, which they say was successful. But the next ct scan I had after the tissue had healed enough showed a spot in the same area. So I had a third liver surgery, which finally got rid of the disease in my liver. But after a while my cea rose again and a ct showed multiple small spots in both lungs and a spot in the pleural sac tissue of my chest. I had done rounds of chemo and radiation throughout all of the prior treatments along with surgery with hopes of curing me of cancer, but the appearance of disease in both lungs and my chest tissue put me in a new category. My oncologist told me we were in a "treatment" phase instead of a "curative" one. "Quality of life" was our focus. Quality over quantity was the idea I guess, but I want both. And so should you.
Despite an initial stage 4 diagnosis, I've crushed survival statistics and had six of the best years of my life. I've had invasive surgeries and regular chemo treatments, but I've also gotten married, traveled to incredible places, seen countless bands and concerts, and tried to make every moment count. At 29 and 30, you (Chad) and I are statistical abnormalities in our cancer diagnoses, and so I think we also should be outside the norms in terms of our treatments and reactions. You are young and strong, so take on as much as you can and don't be afraid. We are not statistics.
Colo-rectal cancer with liver metastasis diagnosed in 2008
Chemo, radiation, then colon and liver resections 2009
2 more liver resections 2009-2011
2013- Liver clear, but small mets spotted in both lungs and rear pleural sac tissue. Terminal condition
Chemo 2013-15
August 2015- Off chemo after tumor growth continued through treatment. Doing radiation on painful tumor in my back for quality of life. Not much time left.