Our beloved jacekica

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Our beloved jacekica

Postby O Stoma Mia » Wed Mar 25, 2015 1:58 am

It is with great sadness and a heavy heart that I convey to you the SMS message that I received last night. It came from Jacekica's cell-phone number, but the message itself was composed by her cousin, Inga, using Jacekica's phone.

The message just received was:

Hvala na molitvama. Jasminka je nocas umrla. Inga

The translation of this message is:
Thank you for your prayers. Jasminka has died tonight. Inga


Jacekica was in her 5th year post-DX (signet-ring-cell carcinoma). One of her special heroes on this Forum was Lauren, who had bravely traveled this same difficult journey only a few months earlier.

Many thanks to Skypup for posting the link to candlelight vigil for jacekica. It was perfect. Over three dozen members, from four different continents, contributed candles this week. Many thanks to all of you who contributed. I have made note of all the names, initials, locations and messages posted with all the candles -- even the anonymous ones. I will later forward this information on to Jacekica's cousin (Inga) and to the family so that they will know without a shadow of a doubt that Jacekica was not alone in her final hours on this planet.

Thanks also to Phuong for setting up the recent Christmas Card Shower - Year 3 for Jacekica last December. By now the flowers that had been sent have faded, but all of the cards and letters are still there with Inga as a witness to Jacekica's quiet but important contribution to this Forum.

Jacekica had a Master of Science (M.Sci.) degree in biology from the University of Zagreb and worked in a lab at the Sisters of Mercy Hospital in Zagreb -- the very same hospital where she eventually received her cancer treatment. Her last two co-authored articles were on K-RAS mutations in pancreatic cancer. Before that she had worked on Interleukin and pancreatic cancer, and 15 years ago or so she was doing research on the role of exercise on ascites in liver patients.

This week the world lost one of its cancer scientists. It also lost one of the kindest, gentlest persons you could ever imagine. Her real name was Jasminka. She will not be forgotten.

A memorial service will be held on Monday, March 30 at 14.30 hours at Krematorij na Mirogoju, Zagreb. This will be followed by celebration of Holy Mass at 18.30 hours at St. Ivana Parish Church.

Further information is contained in the announcement that appeared this morning.
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Re: Our beloved jacekica

Postby Bev G » Wed Mar 25, 2015 8:07 am

May she rest in peace. Such an incredibly kind and smart woman. Her path, so often solitary, was simply heart-wrenching. I'm glad she had Inga, but wish her life had been blessed with many on-site supporters. Her loneliness was heart-breaking. OSM, thank you for being such a committed and faithful friend to our dear Jacekica.
58 yo Type1 DM 48 years
12/09 Stage IV 2/22 nodes + liver met, colon resec
3 tx FOLFIRI, liver resec 4/10
9/10 6 mos off chemo, Neg PET&CTC CEA nl
2/11 finished total 10 rounds chemo

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Re: Our beloved jacekica

Postby elise » Wed Mar 25, 2015 8:19 am

Thank you Mia for letting us know and writing such a beautiful post. My heart is just full of love and ache this week.

Rest in peace Jasminka.

Elise
2012
Feb - Stage 2 (T3 N0 M0) CC @ 30
Mar - R hemicolectomy, 18 LN
May-Nov 6 - Chemo (8 Xeloda)
2013
Feb - NED
2014
Feb - NED
May - Stage 4 - 1 liver met @ 32
Jun - Liver resection
Oct - CLEAN SCAN
Aug-Jan - FOLFOX 5 rounds, 5FU X 6
2015
Ap, Oct - NED
2016
Mar - NED

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Re: Our beloved jacekica

Postby Val*pal » Wed Mar 25, 2015 8:43 am

RIP Jacekica. May the angels surround you and bring you to a better place.
DH dx'ed May '11, age 62
Jul '11: resection Stage IV
10/11: 6 mo Folfox
8/12:thyr canc, surg/tx
2/13: peri mets
2/13: Firi/Avas
6/13: Ok
8/13: break
10/13: Lung, peri, mets
10/13: Firi/Erb
1/14: Erb Fail; spread
5/14: Tx stopped
6/20/14: At rest

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Re: Our beloved jacekica

Postby exaussie » Wed Mar 25, 2015 9:56 am

RIP Jacekica may you never be forgotten
DS 26 yrs old diagnosed 6/13 T3N2aM1b
Resection 6/13
6 rounds chemo folfax
12/13 Fissure
hernia surgery 12/13
5 months break
Maintenance chemo 3/14
Crazy growth. Liver failing. Folfox and vectibex 7-29-14
Chemo failure Hospice 8/26
Left us 8/28

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Re: Our beloved jacekica

Postby skypup » Wed Mar 25, 2015 10:04 am

May you fly with the angels, Jasminka. I am so grateful our lives touched.

Thank you, OSM.

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Re: Our beloved jacekica

Postby Delinda2 » Wed Mar 25, 2015 1:55 pm

So sad that a brilliant mind and loving heart has been taken from us. Fly with the angels.
63 yrs,wife & mom
4/14 dx colon cancer,3C,9/22 nodes
Lymphatic,venous,&perineural invasion
<1cm margin,poorly differentiated
6/14 colostomy take down
7/14 FOLFOX w/9 Nulasta shots
2/16 dx new primary of sigmoid colon
6/16 surgery-rescection on sigmoid, total hysterectomy, temp ileo, stage 4
"I AM the storm."

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Re: Our beloved jacekica

Postby pollo65 » Wed Mar 25, 2015 2:00 pm

What Delinda said. I always thought that she felt alone in her fight. That it's truly sad.
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CC 1/6/09
r. hemi-colectomy 1/7/09
32Ln biopsied, 28 positive
met to aorta
chemo 12 rounds
done 9/09 3 scans clear
1/11 1 met to aorta
micro cluster to peritoneum
4/11 / 9/11 scan clear
4/12 scan clear
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Postby DarknessEmbraced » Wed Mar 25, 2015 2:25 pm

May Jacekica rest in peace.
Diagnosed 10/28/14, age 36
Colon Resection 11/20/14, LAR (no illeo)
Stage 2a colon cancer, T3NOMO
Lymph-vascular invasion undetermined
0/22 lymph nodes
No chemo, no radiation
Clear Colonoscopy 04/29/15
NED 10/20/15
Ischemic Colitis 01/21/16
NED 11/10/16
CT Scan moved up due to high CEA 08/21/17
NED 09/25/17
NED 12/21/18
Clear colonoscopy 09/23/19
Clear 5 year scans 11/21/19- Considered cured! :)

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Re: Our beloved jacekica

Postby janklo » Wed Mar 25, 2015 3:15 pm

Thanks so much for this update. Jacekica was one of our beloved members and I think of her often and will continue to do so. Thanks so much for giving us her background info, it is greatly appreciated to learn more about her. I can't believe she was such a long term survivor with signet ring cell, but she was obviously a fighter and now we find out she was a cancer researcher. The world has definitely lost a great one today.
Mom to 28 yo daughter
colectomy 2/22/10, stage 3C, signet cell
7/2011 peritoneal mets
HIPEC September 2012, difficult recovery
Hospice 10/31/2012, Died 11/16/2012

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Postby juliej » Wed Mar 25, 2015 3:24 pm

What an amazing woman! The world is less without her. My heartfelt condolences to her family.
Stage IVb, liver/lung mets 8/4/2010
Xelox+Avastin 8/18/10 to 10/21/2011
LAR, liver resec, HAI pump 11/2011
Adjuvant Irinotecan + FUDR
Double lung surgery + ileo reversal 2/2012
Adjuvant FUDR + Xeloda
VATS rt. lung 12/2012 - benign granuloma!
VATS left lung 11/2013
NED 11/22/13 to 12/18/2019, CEA<1

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Re: Our beloved jacekica

Postby Maia » Wed Mar 25, 2015 4:40 pm

Jasminka... if there is a heaven, you are there now. You will meet a beautiful brunette, with mesmerizing brown eyes... that's my friend Faith Susan A, who got there on Saturday. Hang with her -she will make you laugh and will be the best pal. And please give her a big fat hug for me.
I'll treasure my PMs with you, Jasminka.

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Re: Our beloved jacekica

Postby jvaime21 » Wed Mar 25, 2015 10:02 pm

Such a brilliant mind.. How I wish I could now her before .
This is so sad.. It saddens me more to know that Signet Ring is impossible to cure anymore.
Prayers to you Jasminka and deepest sympathy to your family , I am lightening a candle for you here in my room.


Retchel
wife of Stg 4 SRC
Diag.'12-2013(rd+Xeloda+oxi)
04/16/14 Clear CT-
8/25/14Kidney blockd nepro.
Rec. lung 1 enlrg. Abdomen
Inoperable/incurable /Chemo for life
11/21/14 Xeloda+Irinetocan 6x
hoping for a bright sunny day

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Re: Our beloved jacekica

Postby Cb75 » Thu Mar 26, 2015 8:33 am

My heart is heavy. <3
39y female Stage IV
diagnosed April 2012
sigmoid resect May 2012
liver resect Aug 2012
Folfox Oct 2012
lungs Sep 2013
R and L laser lung resection Nov 2013/Feb 2014
FOLFIRI and Avastin Apr 2014 ongoing...

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Postby ziggymonster » Thu Mar 26, 2015 11:44 am

Thank you OSM for posting...so sad....what a kind soul she was....may she RIP.
DX advanced prostate cancer 2002
2014 still fighting mPca , failed surgery, radiation, hormone
DX Stage IIIa Rectal Cancer 12/12 1 of 12 nodes +
LAR permanent colostomy 1/13
Folfox 2/13 - 7/13 clear CT CEA 1.2
7/14 liver met chemo the resect in Oct
6/15 2 pos lung mets watching for now


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